Agreed...
First of all nothing remarkable happens to any matter that passes through the event horizon of a black hole that is sufficiently large. Its really just represents a change from time-like coordinates to space-like coordinates but it is a point of no return which terminates not in a place but in a time called the singularity. Long before anything gets to the singularity however space-time gets more and more curved which translates into gravitational forces. These tidal forces eventually squeeze the person or any matter like toothpaste in a tube. Since we have never detected these tidal forces squeezing matter in some preferred direction in our universe it proves that we can not be in a black hole.