Posted on 08/30/2019 6:20:21 PM PDT by Morgana
Judy’s story is a tragic example of how the abortion industry manipulates society into thinking there is nothing wrong with aborting an unborn baby.
Her story, as told in the New Zealand news outlet Stuff, is heartbreaking, not only because she aborted six of her unborn babies, but also because she appears to be suppressing deep suffering with the thought that her abortions were “the right thing” to do.
Judy, 44, not her real name, shared her story as the New Zealand parliament debates a radical pro-abortion bill that would allow unborn babies to be aborted for basically any reason up to birth.
Though the news outlet described Judy as being “plagued” by her abortions, she claimed the bill would help women like her.
She aborted her first unborn baby at age 23 when she was married but not using birth control, according to the report. At the time, she said her relationship with her husband was rocky, and they struggled financially.
“I was completely terrified. I didn’t know what was going to happen and it wasn’t a situation that I wanted, but I knew that I didn’t want it inside of me,” she remembered.
Judy convinced herself that she could not provide a good life for her baby, so she chose to abort her child instead.
“I spent the whole day there being asked the same question in a different way by two consultants, who would ultimately decide my own fate,” she said. “I understand why they do that – make you wait – it’s to give you a chance to back out. It gave me time to think about what I was about to do… but I knew it was the right choice.”
About a year later, she said she became pregnant again, and again, she admitted that she was not using birth control consistently.
“That was the one that hit me. I hated myself for a long time. I had killed another baby… so I took more drugs and alcohol to drown out the pain,” Judy continued.
This is not untypical for post-abortive women. Multiple studies have shown an increased risk of mental health problems, substance abuse and suicide after an abortion. These are rooted in the fact that an abortion kills an innocent human being, the woman’s own child. But the abortion industry encourages women to deny this reality and, in doing so, de-legitimizes their pain.
Judy had four more abortions.
She used birth control, first an IUD then the Depo Provera Injection, but became pregnant anyway, according to the report.
At one point, she said she did consider making an adoption plan instead of having an abortion, but she convinced herself that it would be easier to end her baby’s life than give her child a loving home with another family.
“I just couldn’t. I couldn’t look after anymore kids at the time. I was struggling enough to give the ones I had the life they deserved,” she said.
The report suggests that Judy still struggles with her abortions, though she did not admit that her pain is legitimate and the root of her pain is her decision to end her babies’ lives.
“That’s where I buried my fifth and sixth termination,” she told the news outlet, pointing to a spot in her back yard. She said she also named her sixth aborted baby Delilah.
“I wish I had buried my other terminations. It made me feel a lot more at ease,” Judy said.
Abortion is not normal. It is not good, and it does not help women. Yet, many post-abortive women bury their grief and regret deep inside because the abortion industry tells them that there is nothing to be sad about. It’s just a blob of cells. It wasn’t really a baby yet. And women should be grateful that they can go on with the life they had planned without a child in tow.
But this is not reality. Many women do suffer intensely after aborting their babies. Innately, they know that their abortion destroyed a life. Women deserve to know that their grief is legitimate, and they can find healing and forgiveness. Many pro-life charities provide compassionate, non-judgmental post-abortion programs to help women work through their pain, rather than deny it. They provide hope by reassuring women that their baby had value and their grief is real and normal. And they do not have to live with that pain forever.
link to actual article
https://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/parenting/pregnancy/115212849/i-hated-myself-for-a-long-time-one-womans-experience-of-six-abortions
“Judy has six children. She has also had six abortions.”
So actually Judy has 12 children, six are already at room temperature.
“but I knew that I didn’t want it inside of me,” said Judy.”
So Judy why did you put it inside of you, 12 times no less?
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“That was the one that hit me. I hated myself for a long time. I had killed another baby...”
Judy I’d hate myself too if I’d done what you did. You have been so reckless.
So she has a romp just to be able to kill babies?
Serial Killer.
This gal needs to lay off the Dicken’s Cider...
Using abortion as birth control.
WTH!?
I have a lot of sympathy for her 6 living children-can you imagine the nightmares they must have knowing that mom killed six of their brothers and sisters just because she didn’t want them? I’ll bet they’re afraid she’ll change her mind about them, too...
“Dear Judy the Slut and serial killer. Yes, you are a slut and yes you are a serial killer. Why not sterilize yourself, or stop spending your legs like a whore. “
Now wait a second ConservaTeen and the rest of you!!! Put the breaks on it! Read the article and listen to Morgana!
“She aborted her first unborn baby at age 23 when she was married but not using birth control,”
She was MARRIED! She was not “sleeping around”. This happens more often that you think! In fact a lot of women who have abortions have already had two or three babies.
So please don’t think Miss Judy here was a “whore” spreading her legs for every Tom, Dick, or Harry when in fact the article clearly says she was spreading them for her Hubby. Yes her Hubby who should have stopped her or tied to. Maybe he did we don’t know. It does not say how he felt about her abortions.
The “them” that shouldn’t have been inside her were the 12 baby-daddies.
I worked with a woman who was forced by her husband to have 12 abortions.
If a woman is truly in control of her body she shouldn't have any need for an abortion.
Folks, I never want to hear anyone say something to the effect that they do not understand how the ‘holocaust’ in the 1940s can happen.
We have a holocaust happening all around us...today. Babies are being murdered in the millions behind closed doors in ours and other societies around the world.
This is how holocausts happen. They are done behind closed doors just like the abortion industry does it today.
JoMa
Well she sure seems to like getting a lot of johnson inside her...
“Well she sure seems to like getting a lot of johnson inside her...”
The articles says:
“Judy married her high school sweetheart at 17-years-old, had unprotected sex and got pregnant at 23. “
It never says she got a divorce or separated. So we have to assume “Mr johnson” her hubby has super sperm.
“I worked with a woman who was forced by her husband to have 12 abortions.”
I’ve read stories like those. Usually out of China but can believe it happens here.
Women wonder why they didn’t get to vote.
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