Addendum: One guy in high school that did turn out to be gay, and, sadly, died young of AIDS, spent most of his free time at school hanging out with the cheerleaders, and other hot chicks. I had no clue he was gay until his brother told me, years after he died. He was a nice guy....his brothers were real a-holes, though.
You know, gay guys don’t have to be AH’s (no pun intended) but they have certainly gone off the rails.
There was one guy at work, nice guy (but frustrating to work with because he never followed through on stuff he started - I’ve noticed these people tend to be unreliable). Anyway, he was a nice guy, and made no bones about being queer. One day, he got up out of his cubicle, stood up and yelled, “I’M A FAGGOT!”. It was pretty funny actually.