[Jamestown1630]

Sometimes a man is *asking*, wordlessly, for a woman’s consolation. I think I understood that man entirely, and I really regret that I didn’t have the sense and courage at the moment to answer him appropriately.

Being emotionally honest when it is appropriate is NOT ‘feminization’ - it’s HUMAN.

I don’t want men to be like women - I want them to be their AUTHENTIC selves, and not the inhibited, restricted, ego-driven asses that the culture has so often forced them to be.

Come on - you’re up to it. Unless you’re afraid...

[bagster]

I don’t want men to be like women

Yes you do.

I want them to be their AUTHENTIC selves, and not the inhibited, restricted, ego-driven asses that the culture has so often forced them to be.

This "forcing culture" you speak of is thousands of years of social evolution and nature and you seek to overturn it and turn men into something that complies with your personal sense of how things should be.

Why is it important for men to transform into something "you want them to be"?

How did you become the arbiter of how men "should be"?

The fact is, the ripple effect of monkeying with something as basic as male nature and masculinity can and is devastating to the future of the human race.

Perhaps you feminists should mind your own business and get back to being the best women YOU can be.