I agree with your point. Let me add that a lot of these kids have moms who gave birth at 14-15 years old, then had 4-5 kids before they hit 25. In some cases, grandma is about 30 YO. Neither the parents nor the children ever emotionally or psychologically progress pas their early teens. You can see this in their lack of impulse control, entitlement attitudes, and general lack of understanding for correct decorum.
Not to excuse the behavior and the culture, but it contributes.
You’re not excusing the culture, you’re SAYING WHAT IT IS.
I know, personally.
The adults are children who really don’t know the difference between 5,000 and 100,000 bucks. (yes, i’m serious)
They don’t know what debit cards or credit cards or stocks are.
These are folks in their 30s.
You’d be horrified.
Then again, maybe you wouldn’t be shocked at all.