There’s always state universities, sweetheart. Ain’t no shame in that game.
There really isn't, I graduated from West Virginia University. I was hired on to an accounting firm with graduates from Stanford and Harvard Business. I now have a higher position in the company than either. An Ivy League college might give you a better chance of getting hired to your first job or it might allow you to bargain for a better starting salary. But after that it all comes down to performance. It doesn't matter if you graduated with top honors from Harvard, if your performance is lacking your educational background won't matter for very long.