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Woman loses $250K to online dating scam; FBI shares red flags
ABC7 ^ | 5/4/2019 | Anne Pistone

Posted on 05/04/2019 1:30:26 PM PDT by simpson96

AURORA, Illinois -- A woman was swept off her feet and then taken to the cleaners, losing $250,000. She thought she was falling in love but instead, was betrayed.

The FBI calls it the confidence scam or the romance scam, and said it consistently ranks in the top three online schemes, preying on people who are looking for companionship and love.

But before you know it, you've lost hundreds of thousands of dollars, just like Laura Bockus.

"How could you do this to somebody. I mean, seriously, how could you sleep at night doing this to someone," she wondered.

Bockus said she was forced to put her Aurora home up for sale.

"The annuity's gone, my credits gone, and I have to sell my house," Bockus said. Bockus was tricked into sending dozens of cash payments totaling $250,000 to a person who she thought would be a partner for life.

"He was going to move here, in this house, and then we were going to buy a house in Florida," she explained.

She met "Richard" on an online dating site. Shortly after, she said they ditched the dating platform interface and exchanged phone numbers and e-mails.

"Every time I see your picture I fall in love all over again," Richard wrote to Bockus. She has a table full of romantic love letters. Another read, "If I had a flower every time I thought of you I'd have a whole garden forever."

It wasn't long before requests for money started.

"Six weeks' worth of build-up to where we were, I thought, really close, and for him to ask for -- started out small amounts, you know, like $2,000 or $3,000, and then the largest one was like $50,000," Bockus said.

(Excerpt) Read more at abc13.com ...


TOPICS: Chit/Chat
KEYWORDS: loveforsale; pua; redpill; scam
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1 posted on 05/04/2019 1:30:26 PM PDT by simpson96
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To: beaversmom

Ping.


2 posted on 05/04/2019 1:31:10 PM PDT by KC_Lion (If you want on First Lady Melania's, Ivanka Trump's or Sarah Palin's Ping Lists, just let me know.)
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To: simpson96

Uh Seriously, they need to publish Red Flags?


3 posted on 05/04/2019 1:32:41 PM PDT by ImJustAnotherOkie (All I know is The I read in the papers.)
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

Small amounts - 2000 to 3000 ?

Does this woman live in Beverly Hills ?


4 posted on 05/04/2019 1:34:51 PM PDT by Col Frank Slade
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To: simpson96

How do they sleep at night?
Like babies.


5 posted on 05/04/2019 1:40:27 PM PDT by ArtDodger
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To: Col Frank Slade

This woman needs a Guardian


6 posted on 05/04/2019 1:42:11 PM PDT by butlerweave
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To: simpson96

Check out the video. She is clearly elderly.


7 posted on 05/04/2019 1:42:25 PM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: simpson96

The FBI should know, they baited and tried to scam the Trump campaign with help of Russians... same FBI that pursues Assange coopted him....


8 posted on 05/04/2019 1:45:46 PM PDT by JudgemAll (Democrats Fed. job-security in hatse:hypocrites must be gay like us or be tested/crucified)
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To: simpson96

I have zero sympathy for any woman who is that stupid.


9 posted on 05/04/2019 1:45:53 PM PDT by LydiaLong
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To: simpson96

This is so sad. That there are good people who are so lonely they are susceptible to these creeps.


10 posted on 05/04/2019 1:48:19 PM PDT by RWGinger (Does anyone else really)
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To: simpson96

Was he a Nigerian prince? Happens every time.


11 posted on 05/04/2019 1:48:38 PM PDT by Libloather (Global warming is AWESOME!)
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To: simpson96

Is this what the Clinton Foundation resorting to now — hiring writers to scam women on dating sites?


12 posted on 05/04/2019 1:51:00 PM PDT by Jyotishi (Seeking the truth, a fact at a time.)
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To: LydiaLong

Amen.


13 posted on 05/04/2019 1:51:03 PM PDT by ivory49
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To: RWGinger
Yes. You are right. Being lonely and alone is a hell of a thing.
14 posted on 05/04/2019 1:52:35 PM PDT by 4yearlurker (If you are not interested you will see nothing but the road you walk on.-Jim Corbett)
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To: simpson96
"How could you do this to somebody. I mean, seriously, how could you sleep at night doing this to someone," she wondered.

The same way those at AIG and other financial institutions have managed to sleep at night after wiping out millions of Americans with THEIR con.....only THEY had our government on their side.

15 posted on 05/04/2019 1:54:46 PM PDT by Roccus (When you talk to a politician...ANY politician...always say, "Remember Ceausescu")
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To: simpson96


16 posted on 05/04/2019 1:55:31 PM PDT by Chode ( WeÂ’re America, Bitch!)
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To: simpson96; Gamecock; SaveFerris
and then we were going to buy a house in Florida

Florida again.

17 posted on 05/04/2019 1:56:09 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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18 posted on 05/04/2019 1:57:59 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin ("And she and Billie Jeff was throwing somethin' off the Tallahatchie Bridge...")
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To: simpson96

There is a ‘guy’ out there in cyberland that for 1500 bucks will ‘fix’ your credit.
Just give him the 1500 and sit back and wait for results.
(note - Do NOT hold breath while waiting for results)


19 posted on 05/04/2019 2:00:14 PM PDT by xrmusn (6/98"Getting rich as a Politician means doing something illegal''(trunc) HS Truman)
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To: simpson96; Gamecock; SaveFerris; PROCON
"Every time I see your picture I fall in love all over again," Richard wrote to Bockus. She has a table full of romantic love letters. Another read, "If I had a flower every time I thought of you I'd have a whole garden forever."

I think I know who the perp is.

KRAMER: Her bouquet cleaved his hardened...

NEWMAN: Shell.

KRAMER: ...shell. And fondled his muscled heart. He embibed her glistening spell...just before the other shoe...fell.

PAM: Kramer, that is so lovely.

KRAMER: It's by an unknown 20th-century poet.

PAM: Oh, what's his name?

KRAMER: Newman.


20 posted on 05/04/2019 2:01:26 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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