My family has been told no obituaries, no services of any sort and no mausoleum or dragging ashes around.
I’ve asked that they scatter my ashes but really I don’t care what they do with them they can flush them for all I care.
I want everyone to just keep on keeping on and be happy.
:)
You’ve expressed my intentions also. And I’ve pre-paid the event.
You sound like my father. We did have a memorial service even tho he said he didn’t want anything. Soo many people showed up. It turned out pretty amazing. I’d like to think my father was pleased after all knowing so many cared - and how good it was to see friends and family again.