My mom was only 49 when my pop died and if she dated, I don’t know about it.
She NEVER brought a guy home and the idea of one living with us was INSANE.
I see how well things work out most of the time when women with kids bring their “boyfriend’ around.
The man is more important to them than the kids and terrible things happen too often.
Most men are resentful of the children and it takes a special man to be a good stepfather.
I admire them very much.
Your mother did the right thing. Dr. Laura says if you have small kids and get divorced, forget about dating until they are grown. It’s too confusing for the kids.
“I see how well things work out most of the time when women with kids bring their “boyfriend’ around.”
You’re not kidding. Especially when the walls are thin (if you get my meaning).