Let me guess without even reading the article . . .
Yup.
The names should tell you what you need to know.
*moher’s boyfriend* tells you all you need to know, anything else aside.
Many white BOYFRIENDS watching their girlfriend’s kid or kids doesn’t end up too well either too often.
It is NOT YOUR KID, or even STEP KID.
If the kid starts acting up or crying, since the “boyfriend” has no physical relation to the kid AND MAY BE jealous and even resentful that SHE HAS A KID, violence will happen too often.
OF COURSE that is not universal.
But it’s INSANE to leave your young child with your boyfriend!
I’m not saying we are like animals, but I don’t think lions like having even the CHANCE of having cubs that aren’t his around.
I think good stepdads are in a class by themselves as fantastic people who put ego and everything else aside to give a kid a chance at a good life.
And I commend them..