[KC_Conspirator]

Because the commitment being asked for is an entirely one-way affair. No commitment is being made to the man. Not fidelity, not lifelong partnership, not the chance to raise kids.

Very true.

[raygunfan]

im really not sure what to do anymore, im 57, and my wife of 27 years gave up on me...apparently, I have been the worst husband ever and was either to stupid to follow her admonishments to shape up, or willingly hurting her....either way...im now gun shy as I get ready to move out of my home, away from family, friends, etc..

commitment??? ugh....I don’t want to hear about it...