The high probability of divorce and being divorce raped and a payer of alimony and child support for two decades is what’s turning men off from marriage.
Its a one person contract only, only enforced on the man.
Tell me about it, a friend of mine went through absolute hell ended up paying $250,000 in legal fees alone fighting for custody of the kids, then visitation, his ex-wife was a total b**ch who wanted him gone totally out of his kids life, and he didn’t do ANYTHING abusive to them at all, she just wanted a new guy and she went full psycho and totally wiped him out, and yep, he is paying child support.
End no-fault divorce and re-criminalize adultery.
A friend divorced his wife. They had one child, and she had a daughter by a previous marriage whose father paid ZERO child support. He had a lucrative business so he bough a house for the three of them to live in AND paid $10,000/mo child support AND paid his step-daughter’s way through college (even though he didn’t have to, he’s a really nice guy and loved his stepdaughter). When his son turned 18 and graduated high school, he stopped paying child support but still gave his son money. His ex took him to court or mOre money but the judge looked at what he had already given her over 10 years and thankfully denied it.