Posted on 01/16/2019 7:44:26 PM PST by GrandJediMasterYoda
I Want Kids But My Husband Is Twice My Age
MARRIED Melinda and Larry Mikla have an unconventional age gap in their relationship - of 30 years. The lovestruck pair get stares everywhere they go, from passers-by who think they are dad and daughter, or worse, a granddaughter and her grandpa. The pair met when retired police officer Larry was the first responder to a minor traffic incident involving Mindy’s car in Ohio, USA, in August 2012. Now the couple are trying for a baby, but don’t know if it will be possible due to Larry having a vasectomy 18 years ago.
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“The notion of marriage seems increasingly unattractive to many people.”
To anti-Christians, yes.
The vasectomy is a problem. But surely she knew that when she married him.
Check your state. Many still have adultery listed as a crime. In my state it’s still on the books it’s a felony.
But you have to prosecute it within whatever time period is stated.
I’m Christian and its a raw deal for the man.
ITS A ONE WAY CONTRACT THAT ONLY ONE PARTY GETS PENALIZED FOR.
Talk to the women and “christian” women who file over 80% of the divorce cases. If divorce screwed over women the way it does men, women wouldn’t be filing over 4 to 1 over men.
Does she have any sisters at home? /sarc>
So you’re saying the Bible is wrong?
Not at all.
The bible warns men to avoid unbiblical women and lists multiple attributes of these woken to avoid. Almost all women today are not marriage material.
And it doesnt help courts are set up to divorce rape just one party in the marriage contract.
It also doesnt help that both church and government do not hold women to their marriage contract vows. Eliminating no fault divorce and allowing prosecution for adultery and also for women who stop having sex with their husbands, allowing husbands to divorce wives for withholding intimacy, would be a great start.
Seriously? I HAD in-laws, two of the sisters' husbands' names were Eddie and Edward. One guess to what their father's name was.
“The bible warns men to avoid unbiblical women and lists multiple attributes of these woken to avoid.”
Exactly.
“Almost all women today are not marriage material.”
Are most men?
For the purposes of my discussion thats not an issue, given women abandon marriages at over 4:1 than men do. The epidemic of women ending marriages is due to the women. If they were the ones that the state raped and jailed for not paying the husband afterwards, we’d not have this going on.
The state and the church reward women for divorcing their husbands by default assuming the man is the problem.
Divorce screws over women on a long time delay, by the time she figures out that everyone has grown to hate her for destroying her family, it’s way too late to do anything about it.
Well it screws men over short term AND long term, worse. No one is on the guys side. This is a gynocentric society and all the support goes to one side.
Watch “Divorce Corp” some time.
You sound sad.
I have two different theories for this: $ and Daddy.
Stop the condescending crap.
I didn’t create the reality in which we live in. But this is the current world in which we live.
You sound like a beta simp bent on shaming and guilting men into a horrible social contract with no upsides to them, and cherry-picking religious tidbits to bash them over the head with to marry women who scripture says to stay the hell away from.
You wanna get personal after I laid everything out from logic and law, and non-emotional? Fine, my comments about you, stand.
“I’d get down to the gates of Hell and Satan would JUMP OUT....RRROOAAAAARRRRRR!!!!!! Ah #@$#...you were married huh? Well, I guess there’s nothing much new for you here. Well, I’ll give you the nickel tour anyway....see that? That’s where we torment the soul.......OOOOOOOH! Say, you didn’t happen to see any single guys coming down the tunnel did you? I can scare the $#@# out of them. Oh &*(! ....you were married twice? Want a job? That qualifies you for the job placement program here in Hell...”
- Sam Kinison
Unfortunately, not enough men respond to divorce papers with murder. A woman who has taken an oath of lifelong fidelity, then later files divorce when it is not absolutely necessary, should expect at least a 50/50 chance of meeting her end at his hands.
Maybe he took the ‘til death do you part’ to heart. She wants to part, ...
Sorry. You do sound emotional.
Interesting you buy in to the alpha beta stuff because I was going to say your view is the beta view, but humans aren’t animals so I don’t use that terminology.
Adopt.
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