I don't know. There's been an obvious trend over the past 20-24 years for women to date men who resemble apes.
I think that the whole sexual revolution thing has ruined relationships.
Men think that they can have a “relationship” without commitment and contrary to the propaganda pushed by the left, women want a commitment. It is in their nature. Heck, women are even taught that they don't need nor want a relationship but they are fighting nature. Peer pressure pushes them in the wrong direction. And living together will guarantee failure.
My conclusion if you are looking for a long term relationship, the dating scene is useless. The dating websites are useless. Randomly trying to find a mate will never work if you are looking for a long term relationship.
The best chance of success is through family and or a friend or church. Lastly, relationships of 100 years ago were a lot more practical. You may have not loved the person right away, but you learned to love them. It was a mindset.
You will never find that “perfect mate.” No one is ever perfect.