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"Every conservative I have met has been a bully. Who are some nice conservatives you have met?"
Quora.com ^ | March 14, 2018 | Matt Salter

Posted on 09/29/2018 5:11:42 AM PDT by daniel1212

I’m a hardcore lefty. I also live in Texas and have spent most of my career working for nonprofits. That means a lot of red-state right winging. Not the nice, necktie, Laffer-curve, “fiscal conservative, social liberal” guys either. Nice conservatives don’t run charities. They’re comfy where they are. You want to do good in Texas, you need full-on deplorables. You need the churches, the phone trees, the mailing lists. They’re the boots, or at least the sensible shoes, on the ground, knocking on doors and passing out leaflets and stacking donations til 4 in the morning.

Let’s be clear. Philosophically, these people were opposed to my… everything. Hellbound from the haircut down. Tabletop gaming! I had friends at one workplace who loved and collected board games. Me too! Chat went swimmingly until I showed them the dice my beloved sister gave me for Christmas and they told me D&D is a tool of Devil worship. Chilled the conversation somewhat.

But I’m a dope-ass grantwriter, so they put up with me. That by itself is a shot in the gut to “conservatives are bullies.” I spent years in evangelical conservative settings and was never treated poorly, beyond the usual office nonsense. It’s tempting to say “well, you were making them money,” but I wasn’t. They didn’t get to keep the money I made. The money I made went to strangers in desperate straits, people of different faiths, backgrounds, colors than the evangelicals I worked with. Those evangelicals a) put in 80 hour weeks to help them; b) put up with a walking billboard for every value they didn’t have because he could contribute.

Then I lost my job unexpectedly. That comes up in nonprofit work, alas. Budget’s always a shoestring. Still, it sucked. Last day, I was packing up and the woman next to me asked if I was leaving. I said yes. She asked if she could pray for me. I said sure. Do what you like on your own time, right?

Then she took hold of my hands.

Friends, I was not expecting that. I came up Catholic. I am now a Christian pantheist. Laying on of hands? Not a thing in any of that. At all.

And she prayed. No smug. No pity. Not a word of condemnation. Tears in her eyes, because she was worried about me. Praying, because that’s what she could do in that situation. She believed, so she stood with me and tried her best to help.

I’ve never forgotten that. Don’t think I ever will. My beliefs weren’t hers. My faith certainly isn’t hers. There is every reason to suspect I will live out my span and die without ever experiencing another laying on of hands. But this person used the most powerful tool available to her to be profoundly kind to me, at a time when I really, really needed it.

That’s not the act of a bully.

So there’s that.


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; Miscellaneous; Religion
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To: daniel1212
"I’m a hardcore lefty."

There's your problem, Matt. Virtually every leftist I have met has been a bully and one who would put anyone they disagree with in Concentration Camps.

61 posted on 09/29/2018 5:17:39 PM PDT by fieldmarshaldj ("It's Slappin' Time !")
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To: BenLurkin

D&D was usually the tool of dorks.


62 posted on 09/29/2018 5:18:29 PM PDT by fieldmarshaldj ("It's Slappin' Time !")
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To: ThunderSleeps
Bullies? Funny, the only people out there trying to tell me how to think, how to act, are so-called "liberals." Heck, they're not even just "telling" us how to think, speak, and act - they are violently confronting non-liberals and demanding conformance. If that's not "bullying" (or worse) then please, any liberal lurkers out there, uncloak and tell us your definition of bullying and coercion and defend how liberals' actions are not all that and more.

That is the manifest general Truth, and recently this has much been screamingly exampled. And Truth is exclusive by nature .

63 posted on 09/30/2018 12:20:20 PM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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To: imardmd1
Your link to "Quora.com" in the header is

https://www.quora.com/Every-conservative-I-have-met-has-been-a-bully-Who-are-some-nice-conservatives

but only returns a "Page not found" error message from the site.

I think FR software does not allow URLs that are so long (it stops at Who-are-some-nice-conservatives). Here is the full link.

https://www.quora.com/Every-conservative-I-have-met-has-been-a-bully-Who-are-some-nice-conservatives-you-have-met

64 posted on 09/30/2018 12:21:15 PM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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To: ConservativeStatement

Yeah. I saw that. Bourdain had an “ah-ha” moment.


65 posted on 09/30/2018 12:36:51 PM PDT by NELSON111 (Congress: The Ralph Wolf and Sam Sheepdog show. Theater for sheep. My politics determines my "hero")
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To: daniel1212

I just learned something more from this example. Thanks!


66 posted on 09/30/2018 12:59:40 PM PDT by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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To: daniel1212

Matt Salter seems a bit salty here.


67 posted on 09/30/2018 1:07:11 PM PDT by windsorknot
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To: Retvet
Dear liberal bully. A let me say 2 thing after your verbal attack. 1 I am a conservative. 2. Every liberal I’ve met is a fascist.

Sorry for not seeing this, and yes, while all parties can seek to see law reflecting their ideology, it is the Left which presumes self-proclaimed elitism and fallacious enlightenment, which is from Hell, and seeks to impose this upon the world as a proxy servant of the devil.

But there are some liberals who, while deceived, are sincere in motive, and which can be reached and converted to Christ ("born again") by conservative believers who manifest both the Truth and Love, though hated by the Left overall for doing so.

68 posted on 10/03/2018 6:41:27 AM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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To: Fido969
Check out your local church food pantry, leftie.

Indeed. While liberals present themselves as the saviors of the poor (and require others to finance their self-serving agenda) it is actually evangelicals who are engaged in the most substantial humanitarian work.

69 posted on 10/03/2018 6:41:33 AM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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To: daniel1212

Well, hopefully, this honest liberal will soon come to realize that most of the bullies are Leftoids.


70 posted on 10/03/2018 6:52:47 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks ( The US Constitution ....... Invented by geniuses and God .... Administered by morons ......)
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To: Retvet
Dear liberal bully. A let me say 2 thing after your verbal attack. 1 I am a conservative. 2. Every liberal I’ve met is a fascist.

Sorry for not seeing this, and yes, while all parties can seek to see law reflecting their ideology, it is the Left which presumes self-proclaimed elitism and fallacious enlightenment, which is from Hell, and seeks to impose this upon the world as a proxy servant of the devil.

But there are some liberals who, while deceived, are sincere in motive, and which can be reached and converted to Christ ("born again") by conservative believers who manifest both the Truth and Love, though hated by the Left overall for doing so.

71 posted on 10/04/2018 4:28:52 PM PDT by daniel1212 (Trust the risen Lord Jesus to save you as a damned and destitute sinner + be baptized + follow Him)
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