It doesn’t put down men, or marriage, but conveys an order of things that feels right to most men and that most men would be happy with.
Some modern women clearly don’t want men to be happy.
That fact provides the contrast between their view and the view in the article.
“It doesn’t put down men, or marriage,...”
I suspect its intent is to do so, indirectly. “What man would actually want that?! What wife would actually do that?!”
Typical covert proggie-fem agitprop, to me.