It’s all the parents fault.
Yep...they are the ones to blame.
We never had to prod ours, but they knew as long as they were in school, that was their job, and we’d provide room and board (this included grad school) but once graduation was done was launch day. Fortunately they launched much sooner than this guy. We have a son his age, he’s been married for 7 years, has two kids, an MBA, great job, a house...all the things that grown up men should have instead of playing with legos and video games and hanging out at mom and dad’s house.