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Male professor won’t apologize over lingerie ‘joke’ to Merrimack College professor
https://www.boston.com/ ^ | 5/7/18 | OLGA R. RODRIGUEZ

Posted on 05/09/2018 6:25:43 PM PDT by BBell

"In my view, this is not only a frivolous complaint but one that is damaging to serious issues of discrimination and misogyny."

Students on the campus of Merrimack College. –Jim Davis / The Boston Globe, File

SAN FRANCISCO (AP) — A male political theory professor said Friday he won’t apologize to a female gender studies professor for a joke about “ladies’ lingerie” he made while both were riding in a crowded elevator. The public spat comes amid heightened sensitivity to sexual misconduct propelled by the #MeToo movement.

Professor Ned Lebow, who teaches political theory at King’s College London, told The Associated Press that he has refused to apologize because he did nothing wrong and because a complaint filed by Professor Simona Sharoni against him with the International Studies Association is “frivolous.”

Sharoni, a professor of women’s and gender studies at Merrimack College in Massachusetts, said in a complaint she filed last month that she was standing near the elevator at a San Francisco hotel and she offered to press the elevator buttons when Lebow “said with a smile on his face, ‘women’s lingerie’ and all his buddies laughed.”

She said she froze and didn’t confront him. As the men walked out of the elevator, the only other woman in the elevator turned to her and told her maybe they should have spoken up. They said it is no longer acceptable to make such jokes.

“As a survivor of sexual harassment in the academy, I am quite shaken by this incident,” Sharoni wrote.

Hours after the April 5 encounter, she filed a complaint with Mark Boyer, the executive director of ISA, which was hosting the annual conference on international relations studies.

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KEYWORDS: lingerie; male; merrimackcollege; professor
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To: BBell
Lebow “said with a smile on his face, ‘women’s lingerie’ and all his buddies laughed.”

Was it the smile that got her panties in a wad or did she think he should have requested “men’s lingerie”?

21 posted on 05/09/2018 6:47:41 PM PDT by immadashell (Save Innocent Lives - ban gun free zones)
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To: FatherofFive

Yeah, it’s so difficult to navigate normal conversations with the opposite sex. Who can tell the difference between innocent remarks like “ladie’s lingerie” and “Great presentation the other day”? Crazy how women just randomly take offense to anything. Must have been that time of the month, amirite?


22 posted on 05/09/2018 6:49:18 PM PDT by Kanakabaraka
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To: henkster
She's no lady.

I wonder if he did this on purpose to jerk her chain.

23 posted on 05/09/2018 6:50:28 PM PDT by BBell (calm down and eat your sandwiches)
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To: henkster

Are you kidding? I’m a girl, and we used to make the same lame joke back in the 70-80’s on any elevator as it stopped along the way. “Polsky’s, 4th floor, lingerie. (Ohio)

It’s like saying “ take my wife, please.” An old fashion, used to be funny comment.

NO APOLOGIES. ENOUGH. I wish I could send this guy an attaboy for refusing to be pushed around.


24 posted on 05/09/2018 6:51:35 PM PDT by americas.best.days... ( Donald John Trump has pulled the sword from the stone.)
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To: Quick Shot

Sounds like the opening to a certain Bad Boys of Boston song.

Well hello Mr Tyler


25 posted on 05/09/2018 6:52:01 PM PDT by Dartoid
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To: BlessedBeGod
I thought it was funny, and I'm a woman. I would have laughed my head off.<<<

Of course you would have...lol...cause you'd have followed it by saying....Sure!...but you're buying!

(been there done that...cost me a fortune...but I learned my lesson)

26 posted on 05/09/2018 6:52:38 PM PDT by M-cubed
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To: Governor Dinwiddie

Looks like somebody has reached the age where she’s invisible and bitter.


27 posted on 05/09/2018 6:52:40 PM PDT by GnuThere
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To: Governor Dinwiddie

I looked her up too. Like I said, A real piece of work.


28 posted on 05/09/2018 6:52:44 PM PDT by BBell (calm down and eat your sandwiches)
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To: ETCS

You beat me. Lol


29 posted on 05/09/2018 6:52:45 PM PDT by Dartoid
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To: BBell

It was San Francisco! What’s so unusual about a male wanting to go to the lingerie department?


30 posted on 05/09/2018 6:54:13 PM PDT by GreenHornet
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To: BBell

I don’t think that is a joke on the woman. Womens lingerie is a department in a department store. Its a request that could have been made 40 years ago when elevator operators existed. It has nothing to do with the women pressing the button. Its a joke she just doesn’t get. And he could have said it with all men there as well. Its not about her.


31 posted on 05/09/2018 6:55:52 PM PDT by poinq
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To: Governor Dinwiddie

Muh,muh,muh,muh, my-eee Sharoni


32 posted on 05/09/2018 6:56:15 PM PDT by NativeSon ( Grease the floor with Crisco when I dance the Disco)
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To: poinq

your comment is naive in my experience.


33 posted on 05/09/2018 6:57:08 PM PDT by morphing libertarian ( Build Kate's Wall)
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To: americas.best.days...

The opening of “Are You Being Served”


34 posted on 05/09/2018 6:58:31 PM PDT by NativeSon ( Grease the floor with Crisco when I dance the Disco)
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To: henkster

So. What.


35 posted on 05/09/2018 6:59:13 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: BBell

36 posted on 05/09/2018 6:59:22 PM PDT by libh8er
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To: NativeSon

I’ve heard of that show but never seen it. What’s in the opening?


37 posted on 05/09/2018 7:01:55 PM PDT by americas.best.days... ( Donald John Trump has pulled the sword from the stone.)
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To: henkster

a gentleman would not have made the comment to begin with.<<<

Nope..But a true gentleman could have made it and make her feel comfortable....

But for some gentleman its better to be seen and not heard...They don’t have the knack...


38 posted on 05/09/2018 7:06:37 PM PDT by M-cubed
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To: BBell
“As a survivor of sexual harassment in the academy, I am quite shaken by this incident,” Sharoni wrote.

Was that the Laughing Academy, professor? I saw your picture.

39 posted on 05/09/2018 7:08:21 PM PDT by TigersEye (This is the age of the death of reason.)
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To: Governor Dinwiddie
“Dr. Sharoni is a feminist scholar, researcher and public intellectual. <<<

Public intellectual ??...lol..is that something like a flasher?..what the hell does she do in private??

40 posted on 05/09/2018 7:12:57 PM PDT by M-cubed
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