Well, I wasn’t going that far. I just wondered why she thought that being blonde, wearing pearls, making strong drinks and having ‘good manners’ somehow identified her as ‘WASPy’ - as opposed to any number of other ethnic groups.
(On the other hand, there are lots of blonde or red-haired and blue-eyed Jews in the world - I fell in love with one once, and it didn’t surprise me at all that he wanted to end up with a nice Jewish girl ;-)
There are a lot of ‘outliers’ in the world who are happy going off differently from their background; but most people seem to want to be with others who are like them and with whom they share certain ways of looking at things - culture, background, faith. Seems like a no-brainer, to me.
Well, maybe if a woman distinguished herself from all the other women available in the pool of a rich jew guy, they could have him stick around.
Every single woman , jewish or not, likes a guy for his qualities as rich, intelligent, connected etc... but do they really know him? His particular passions whether they be an author or a hobby? Do they show interest in him as who he is better than a jewish mother would? Do they understand his struggles as a jew and keeping up with the tradition? Are they supportive?
What makes this woman any better and different than the other ordinary hs out there he might be having around himself by the dozen.
It is her, not his preference for jewish women who are just another boring default fall back relationship to stabilize their emotional preoccupations