OTHO, my Mrs. was a very average looking girl and today, she is one of the hottest looking 60 something ladies around. Lots of my friends comment on her beauty and I work hard to hold my tongue from saying "she looks even better nekkid!"
There is something about the conservative philosophy of decency and personal responsibility that makes you grow beautiful. Heck, I even find myself getting hit on by women my age when my wife is not with me. And, as I said, I am very average looking except being slightly taller (6'2") and having a full head of hair. My wife is kind and says it is my looks, but it would have happened years ago if her theory is right. I tell her it is only because the odds are starting to skew in my favor.
It's amazing, isn't it? I never got hit on by women till I was married. The wedding ring is supposed to be a deterrent, but I've discovered that it's actually a chick magnet.
That said, my wife doesn't have anything to worry about; I wasn't exactly a smooth-talker before I met her, and nothing's really changed. Women flirting with me is usually met with a befuddled stare and a "Huh? What are you talking about?"