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Study: Unattractive Men Not Viewed As ‘Dating Material,’ No Matter How Great Their Personality
Study Finds ^ | 11-21-2017 | Daniel Steingold

Posted on 11/23/2017 9:28:05 AM PST by blam

WILLIMANTIC, Conn. — Maybe nice guys really do finish last, after all. Women don’t view unattractive men as “dating material,” no matter how exceptional their other qualities are, a new study finds.

Researchers at Eastern Connecticut State University looked at the mate preferences of 80 young women, aged 15 to 29, while also having 61 of their mothers weigh in.

The participants were presented with photographs of men varying in both attractiveness and described as one of three dispositions:“friendly,” “pleasing,” or “respectful.”

Additional trait profiles were explained for each of the three dispositions. Men labeled “respectful” included the traits ‘respectful, trustworthy, and honest;’ the ‘friendly’ men were labeled ‘friendly, dependable, and mature;’ and the ‘pleasing” profile meant that the man was ‘of a pleasing disposition, ambitious, and intelligent.’

The women were then asked to assess how attractive they found each man photographed, along with whether they found the man suitable to date, either themselves or for their daughters.

Simply put, men viewed as unattractive were not viewed as potential suitors, no matter the level of other redeeming qualities that accompanied their photos. Those with favorable personality traits that were ranked highly were at least moderately attractive.

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KEYWORDS: appearance; attractive; dating; looks
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To: marktwain

I’ve had good luck with Australian women 30 years ago cause Aussie men drank too much and were harsh to women

Just saying


81 posted on 11/23/2017 11:09:18 AM PST by wardaddy (As a southerner I've never trusted the Grand Old Party.....any questions?)
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To: blam

Unless the unattractive Man’s won the Powerball Lottery or his nickname is “The Human Tripod”.


82 posted on 11/23/2017 11:10:33 AM PST by Kickass Conservative ( THEY LIVE, and we're the only ones wearing the Sunglasses.)
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To: blam
Did they do one with unattractive women?

In high school girls who fathers owned package stores always had boyfriends regardless of looks.

83 posted on 11/23/2017 11:17:19 AM PST by AU72
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To: blam

Attractive women who are otherwise empty vessels are not “marrying material” as far as smart men are concerned.

“What else you got?” is hard to put tactfully, but is a very good question for parents to ask their daughters long before dating is even an issue. Of course neither boys nor girls *start* by having other assets, so it is a long process to discover and develop *useful* things like smarts, common sense, physical prowess, talent, independence, wit, character and other things.

But nothing so focuses smart men on a woman than her demonstrating not only is she not empty, but has useful and valuable skills beyond her looks.

And truthfully, it doesn’t take a genius to figure out that looks don’t last. Also that someone who abuses themselves with food, drink, drugs, smoke, and sexual license and other bad habits is going to burn out quickly, so are not good long term investments.


84 posted on 11/23/2017 11:23:48 AM PST by yefragetuwrabrumuy (Globalism is Colonialism)
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To: Jim 0216

Warning: Language

Eddie Murphy - Singers Get P_____ (From ‘Delirious’)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDQ1lxB0goY


85 posted on 11/23/2017 11:29:46 AM PST by dfwgator
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To: Bodleian_Girl

Hello!


86 posted on 11/23/2017 11:46:51 AM PST by lurked_for_a_decade (Imagination is more important than knowledge! ( e_uid == 0 ) != ( e_uid = 0 ). I Read kernel code.)
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To: blam

Maybe nice guys really do finish last, after all. Women don’t view unattractive men as “dating material


First sentence out of the chute and it’s baloney. This does not bode well for the rest of the article. Nice is not a synonym for unattractive. Nice is a behavior, unattractive is an appearance.


87 posted on 11/23/2017 11:47:08 AM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

That’s not a chick. That’s some kind of Screech Bird that escaped from captivity.


88 posted on 11/23/2017 11:55:46 AM PST by Jim W N
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To: TalBlack
Hate to break it to these geniuses but a live person, face to face is un quantifiable.

Exactly right.

89 posted on 11/23/2017 12:03:23 PM PST by TChad
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

Slump Buster.

90 posted on 11/23/2017 12:07:25 PM PST by MuttTheHoople (Yes, Liberals, I question your patriotism)
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To: poinq

As a guy, no matter how well I got to know
Sandra Bernhard, she'd still be shockingly ugly.
I don't see women vs Michael Moore being any different.

91 posted on 11/23/2017 12:12:50 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: blam

Marry and ugly man and he won’t cheat on you.


92 posted on 11/23/2017 12:17:43 PM PST by bgill (CDC site, "We don't know how people are infected with Ebola.")
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To: Jim 0216


One of the more shocking mismatches.
Dennis and Elizabeth Kucinich.
What a waste of redheaded beauty.

93 posted on 11/23/2017 12:23:58 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: Jim Noble
60% of the women who are putting out but not getting a “relationship”

There's the trouble.

94 posted on 11/23/2017 12:32:02 PM PST by Bodleian_Girl (Please see my profile to find out why the Birmingham News is trying to destroy Judge Roy Moore)
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To: alexander_busek; Redwood71

Hey, I thought it was pretty neat, most likely deliberate.
But what can you expect? He only has two college degrees.


95 posted on 11/23/2017 12:32:49 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: Bodleian_Girl
60% of the women who are putting out but not getting a “relationship”...There's the trouble.

That's only the beginning of the trouble, and it's not the worst part, by any means.

96 posted on 11/23/2017 12:34:22 PM PST by Jim Noble (Single payer is coming. Which kind do you like)
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To: Jim Noble

What I meant is that girls should realize that giving their selves away like that won’t work.


97 posted on 11/23/2017 12:37:27 PM PST by Bodleian_Girl (Please see my profile to find out why the Birmingham News is trying to destroy Judge Roy Moore)
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To: bgill

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life
never make a pretty woman your wife. Go for my
personal point of view, get an ugly woman to marry you.

“Hey, man, I just saw your wife. Shes uuuglly!”
“Yeah, baby, but she sure can cook!”


98 posted on 11/23/2017 12:39:22 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: blam
Men labeled “respectful” included the traits ‘respectful, trustworthy, and honest;’ the ‘friendly’ men were labeled ‘friendly, dependable, and mature;’ and the ‘pleasing” profile meant that the man was ‘of a pleasing disposition, ambitious, and intelligent.’

They left out the trait “rich AF”. To the women surveyed, a fly-covered turd with a private jet is “dateable”.

99 posted on 11/23/2017 12:40:19 PM PST by Rebelrage ("To crush your enemies -- See them driven, and to hear the lamentation of their women)
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To: lurked_for_a_decade

Right back at ya!


100 posted on 11/23/2017 12:44:59 PM PST by Bodleian_Girl (Please see my profile to find out why the Birmingham News is trying to destroy Judge Roy Moore)
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