Posted on 09/29/2017 6:21:22 PM PDT by EdnaMode
Edited on 09/29/2017 8:07:58 PM PDT by Admin Moderator. [history]
In what some (the author) likely consider a groundbreaking assertion, University of Texas sociology professor Mark Regnerus is warning women that no one buys the cow when it gives the milk away for free.
In an extraordinarily trollish essay for the Wall Street Journal, excerpted from his book on the same subject, Regnerus makes a lot of sweeping generalizations about how the decline of marriage is a result of women boinking with impunity. He starts out with this quote from a 24-year-old guy named Kevin, a man of age who knows all there is to know about romantic and sexual relationships:
Girls are easier to mislead than guys just by lying or just not really caring. If you know what girls want, then you know you should not give that to them until the proper time. If you do that strategically, then you can really have anything you want whether its a relationship, sex, or whatever. You have the control.
Nasty, Regnerus admits, but it works. And if it works, why would any guy ever stop lying to every woman he meets or treat them as people with any actual value? You can only get a guy to hang with you long enough to respect your humanity if you hold sex just out of reach for as long as possible, like a little bonbon in reward for eye contact.
To make his point about what dumb bimbos ladies are, Regnerus asks a girl named Kristin if men should make sacrifices for sex. She gives him a confusing answer (because wtf does that even mean) and he draws a damning conclusion:
Kristin rightly wants the men whom she dates to treat her well and to respect her interests, but the choices that she and other women have made unwittingly teach the men in their lives that such behavior is noble and nice but not required in order to sleep with them. They are hoping to find good men without supporting the sexual norms that would actually make men better.
My vagina is for teaching a lesson. If youre not learning, Im doing something wrongto all of society!!
This cheap sex isnt happening just because women are stupid and give the fuck without demanding a candlelit dinner first. Its the result of technology, apparently. The two technologies Regnerus names are birth controlwhich he admits has been around for 60 years, so its unclear why family planning is a modern culpritand pornography:
Online porn has made sexual experience more widely and easily available too. A laptop never says no, and for many men, virtual women are now genuine competition for real partners.
File under: NSS.(No s### Sherlock)
Partially true. But there is a lot more to it IMO.
The overt man hating culture of “feminism” is a bigger factor. “All men are rapists” and the like don’t entice a man into a very expensive legal relationship.
Who wants to marry someone that has a predatory and vindictive view of the male sex? When you know that once a child comes along you can be screwed six ways to Sunday by a judiciary that says men must prove their innocence when accused by a woman? When proving a negative is a logical impossibility?
I have been married once, still am 40 years later. But my wife is not a man hating predator. But the legal system would have been on her side had she been one.
uh oh...somebody is about to doxxed, protested, and then fired
And he is a Skinny pants wearer with a man bun!.
There are two types of girls guys are interested in: the one you take home from the party, and the one you take home to mom and dad.
Never confuse one for the other.
Would you like a free STD with that free milk?
These days it’s “Why buy the pig when all you want is some sausage?”
Send a few of the sexually cheap ones over here ( pictures first!) and I’ll test them out for you and let you know if the article’s correct or not.
Actually wearing pants called “a butt bag”
Girls learn to get over their natural sense of modesty with lessons like that.
Fast forward to now ... lots of young women have no sense of modesty and sex is cheap.
ping
Actually wearing pants called a butt bag
you mean... Butt Plug.
its much better now than it was 50 years ago. back then it was a real drag if you got VD. Today, however, according to the commercial if you contract herpes you get to go swimming, horseback riding, sky diving, you get to have even more sex with even hotter chicks while drinking mojitos on the beach. These days herpes is all the rage
Of course not every divorce is due to the woman being a man hating preditor. Sometimes they just can’t get along and need to go their separate ways.
Personally I think it’s the duty of women to be very careful who they engage in baby making activity with. Nature has assigned the duty of protecting the baby to the mother. I’m totally against abortion as birth control. Hugh Heffner and his ilk - who wanted women to be merely pleasure toys - disagreed.
Lolololol. Don't you just love the complete BS liberal claptrap in their fake world?
This is only one factor of several.
There may be something to it, but it is wrong to lay this all at the feet of women.
Good men (and women) have to be raised from children with good moral character. Good parenting, good examples (in life and in the media), and real religious education are probably more important.
“When I entered my teens, young women were taught not only to withhold sex before marriage, we were even told to be stingy with our kisses, lest a boy get the wrong idea.”
Like girls told Richard Pryor when he was a teenager, “I ain’t gonna [BLEEP] you, you cain’t even sing.”
I was thinking the same thing: cow-milk-free.
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