Posted on 09/18/2017 7:17:39 AM PDT by BenLurkin
That afternoon in late spring, her daughter finally got the jeweled belly button ring she had been asking for, and Breuner got a reminder that her little girl was growing up.
Breuner felt a swell of emotion, she said.
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“I’m not saying everybody should do that,” she added, “but at least for me, my sense of this whole world is that it’s changing right in front of us, and we can either have our eyes open and be supportive and help our children make informed decisions when they’re young adults, or ignore it and hope it goes away.”
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Richard Dukes focused much of his research on tattoos and piercings among youth during his career as a sociology professor.
The professor emeritus at the University of Colorado-Colorado Springs, who was not involved in the new clinical report, said it compiles current medical knowledge and does not contradict any of his own research findings.
“Tattoo regret is fairly common because meanings, values and norms change, and tattoos do not,” Dukes said, adding that when someone gets a tattoo at an older age, the likelihood for regret is less.
“We have three grown sons. Two of them wanted to be tattooed. We said to wait until you are 18 and be sure to get good artwork,” Dukes said of his own family.
“They complied,” he said. “Now, one of them has had the small tattoo removed from his back, because he did not want his young daughter to think that he thought it was a good thing to do. The other son has two tattoos. I asked him if he would ever get another one. He said that if he had no tattoos, he would not get one. Since he already has tattoos, he is more likely to get another one.”
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I’m glad you didn’t take him up on his offer, LOL!
But don’t you think trying to make yourself look different just puts you in the group of people that just want to ID their supposed difference?
“But don’t you think trying to make yourself look different just puts you in the group of people that just want to ID their supposed difference?”
Good question.
I’m goth. Yup. Black nails, dyed hair, even eyeliner (Although not in years!). I’ve been this way since I was a teenage boy.
I work on cars, hunt, I’m more to the right than Archie Bunker and I’m a devout christian. I have no “except” and I have no policies.
You see, it’s not that I don’t _care_ what people think of me, it’s that I’m not _afraid_ of what people think of me.
The distinction is easy to speak but not easy to understand.
But you copy someone else to look Goth, so that’s not really being “different.” That’s just being a follower.
Who am I copying to be Goth ?
And of course, when I say Goth, I don’t mean 14th century Austrian :)
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