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9 Reasons It’s So Hard to Find a Good Man
Bolde.com ^ | Amanda Chatel

Posted on 09/15/2017 8:15:38 PM PDT by BJ1

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To: DIRTYSECRET

If they broke down in tears on election night 2016, they are not strong or smart.

That accounts for half the women in this country.


201 posted on 09/16/2017 7:44:31 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: fieldmarshaldj

I guess I’m lucky. Neither of our in-laws does anything remotely like that...
Moving away not an option??sorry.


202 posted on 09/16/2017 7:44:46 AM PDT by wyowolf (Be ware when the preachers take over the Republican party...)
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To: gaijin

Is that mold on her arm?

A birthmark?

Teenage rebellion?


203 posted on 09/16/2017 7:45:17 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: BJ1

May be, but I’ve heard that there are 100,000,000 Christians in China. May not be “majority” but it is a number increasing while in America the number is decreasing.


204 posted on 09/16/2017 7:49:59 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: BJ1

Women can bring everything to a marriage. They have to choose to.

The primary issue is most don’t know what they want, and lack the confidence to admit it. Generally, when they put words to it, that all goes away.


205 posted on 09/16/2017 7:51:39 AM PDT by RinaseaofDs (Truth, in a time of universal deceit, is courage)
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To: BJ1

>>When I quit a job or get fired, I don’t expect to still get paid.

You obviously don’t work for the government or as a corporate executive.


206 posted on 09/16/2017 7:53:00 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: TheNext

The first husband, after we divorced, people in my life starting coming up and saying they never liked him, didn’t think we’d go far, etc. We were very young, from different countries, etc. The second time I was older, and asked everyone in my life to vet this one. They all gave him rave reviews, in case my judgment was off. Didn’t help, in the long run.


207 posted on 09/16/2017 7:55:04 AM PDT by Yaelle (Leftist trees bear strange fruit...blood on the leaves, blood on the root...)
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To: TheNext

I find this hard to believe. Is this a federal law? State law? If so, same in all 50 states? Where would I research this?


208 posted on 09/16/2017 7:55:17 AM PDT by Reily
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To: BJ1

Perhaps. But just seeing marriage as permanent doesn’t connect with happiness. Being alone, doing all the work myself, supporting them all myself impossibly, is almost like not being a human, just being a servant. Yet I am happier now (not very though) than I was living with someone who treated me poorly. A bad marriage is worse than a bad “singlehood.”


209 posted on 09/16/2017 7:59:12 AM PDT by Yaelle (Leftist trees bear strange fruit...blood on the leaves, blood on the root...)
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To: caww
The new trend is a big oval tat above the knee on one or both legs. Like a sticker on the front of the leg(s).

It's not even asthetic PLACEMENT. It only serves as "good use of space" if it is to be the anchor for a whole bunch of tattoo art all over the leg and who is looking to marry Lydia The Tattooed Lady?

210 posted on 09/16/2017 8:03:26 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: a fool in paradise

“Here’s your sign.”


211 posted on 09/16/2017 8:03:56 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: a fool in paradise

Political views of a potential mate are very important, in the long run, if two people have vastly different political views, odds are the relationship is not going to work out.


212 posted on 09/16/2017 8:05:46 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: a fool in paradise
May be, but I’ve heard that there are 100,000,000 Christians in China. May not be “majority” but it is a number increasing while in America the number is decreasing.

The middle class in China is going its own way. A billion poor farmers still support the party, and the leadership still gets hung up spouting Maoist rhetoric from time to time - but the culture has already in large part slipped away of their control. It's going to be a very different country in another decade. Not necessarily better for the national interests of the USA and of China's neighbors, but the problems China will pose to the world will be far less military/totalitarian and far more economic/cultural.

213 posted on 09/16/2017 8:09:57 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ([CTRL]-[GALT]-[DELETE])
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To: Yaelle
The problem for young women is they really do need a good provider of emotional support and financial stability in order to reproduce the species. And men are sick of the feminist agenda where it’s always heads, women win, tails, guys lose

"a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"

It expresses that women have NO need or even USE for a man. And that was mainstream feminism circa the 1970s.

214 posted on 09/16/2017 8:10:52 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: WhirlwindAttack
>>My criteria was always: No tattoos, Nothing but ears pierced, No hair colors that do not exist naturally somewhere (don't mind dye jobs, just no day glow neon please). My next wife will be from before the 1950's as soon as I get the time machine online.

Uh oh, the 50s don't look the same since time travelers started going there.


215 posted on 09/16/2017 8:16:08 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: wyowolf

It was all a big complicated mess as I’ve recounted too many times to countless strangers, however well-meaning in their advice on the situation. Unfortunately too late to save the situation 14 years past.

I’m more or less amazed at my shocking inability to find anyone since in reality, despite trying in my peculiar circumstances (not that I’d ever dare to bring someone into such a situation, it would be handled far differently now).


216 posted on 09/16/2017 8:17:19 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Je Suis Pepe)
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To: a fool in paradise

I’ve always hated it (re feminism) Even in its subtle, man-bashing forms. Look at woman to woman greeting cards. #1 theme: insulting men.

I adore men. They are straightforward and great company. I would prefer to hang with three guys than three women, though I love my fellow women too. But I hate drama and cliques and “group herding” (by shaming), and women do it 99% more than men do.

Feminism never served me. My mom heard the siren call and ditched us as kids for her high powered career. I’m lucky I even lived through her hands off parenting.


217 posted on 09/16/2017 8:17:53 AM PDT by Yaelle (Leftist trees bear strange fruit...blood on the leaves, blood on the root...)
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To: a fool in paradise

And then there’s the issue of the cost of a wedding. Heck, you have to save for ten years just to afford, since nowadays less and less parents are willing to pay for their kids’ weddings.


218 posted on 09/16/2017 8:19:15 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Dr. Sivana

There are a bunch of Korean churches around the DFW area.


219 posted on 09/16/2017 8:20:13 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Bonemaker

That’s well put. Thanks


220 posted on 09/16/2017 8:20:18 AM PDT by faithhopecharity ("Politicans are not born, they're excreted." -- Marcus Tillius Cicero)
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