“I need to remind the husband of who is in charge when he asks of the cat, “Why are you in my chair?”. As far as the cat is concerned, it’s kitty’s chair, and he allows my husband to sit in it when he wants a warm lap.”
My situation is worse. My Great Dane has long ago established exclusive, prescriptive dog rights to what was my couch. My AST/retriever cross regularly negotiates with me over how much of the bed each of us will occupy.
I’ll bet you are paying a lot of money to the bank each month for the privilege of living in that dog house, huh?