Congrats but a four year old at my same age as you would devastate me. I dont want any more responsibility at all. Im looking for less all the time and have taken care of others long enough.
Four six oz cups each morning. Down from many each day a year ago. Always drink it black.
I raised a kid in my 30’s and 40’s while I worked 2 jobs, I missed a lot.
Now I am fully retired, I have time for her. The poor girl is getting a lot of daddy involvement in her education. IMHO there is no better time to have a child than at my age, I am here for her (as long as I keep drinking coffee).
So for me I thank God every day for the gift of my daughter (and her tolerant mother). The downside being I will probably no be here for any grandchildren.