A good friend of mine got pregnant accidentally with her steady back when she was 19 and had an abortion. Now she's 35 with no man in her life and desperate for a child. Life - God? - just comes back to kick you sometimes.
No, God does not ‘kick’ you! We all must endure the consequences of our actions, good and bad. God loves ALL His creation but allows us free will to make our own choices.
His hand is visible in all of Creation. It is up to us to decide if we are willing to believe and follow, or not. Your choice ... and her’s ... and everyone’s.