You know, men can just behave lime a mature adult and not worry about this type of stuff.
I see all these “these losers should just keep it in their pants” posts as the equivalent of seeing fat people and saying, “these losers should just eat less.”
The human condition is to be imperfect.
I’m VERY happily married and quite fulfilled in this area, but being a man, I know the heart of man. Even at 63, if my wife died I’d have to find me a new wife. The risk of sin, otherwise, would be unbearably high. Again, I reference the words of Paul.