I see all these “these losers should just keep it in their pants” posts as the equivalent of seeing fat people and saying, “these losers should just eat less.”
The human condition is to be imperfect.
I’m VERY happily married and quite fulfilled in this area, but being a man, I know the heart of man. Even at 63, if my wife died I’d have to find me a new wife. The risk of sin, otherwise, would be unbearably high. Again, I reference the words of Paul.
Nonsense. Fat is not a moral issue. It affects no one else’s life or rights.
Screwing around always affects something; always affects AT LEAST one other person. At the very least, it may “tie” you to other people long since past that you can’t get out of your mind because of the first release of pheromones. So much for being truly dedicated to your spouse.
At worst, some poor child is born into a bad situation, without any stability and possibly with losers otherwise, usually loose in all morals. What a life to offer an innocent child.
Keep it in the pants. Period. God made things “sinful” for a reason, not just to ruin one’s fun. He doesn’t want a child to be ruined.