To: Secret Agent Man
Poindexter's Revenge. A-holes get laid while nice guys buy dinner. The reward you get as a nice guy is becoming the Plan B or C to some woman who only looks at you as a human ATM and sperm donor in order to lock you into a relationship youre not going to want. Think about it; most attractive women in this country have had an array of men chasing after them since puberty. A few (and often, more than a few) have seen her naked, and have gotten sex from her in the most adulterous ways imaginable. The only reason she even talks to Poindexter is because shes had one kid too many and/or is older and can no longer compete against the younger women who have passed her by. The fallacy is that even then the nice guy is still regarded as the standby, the fall back. Studies have shown that the more partners a woman has prior to marriage, the more dissatisfied she is in it. Which is part of the reason why women initiate 70% of all divorces. Most husbands are rarely looked at by their wives as a hot commodity. When she goes out with her girlfriends and they discuss all of the hot guys they had sex with over the years, hubbys name rarely, if EVER comes up. The only time his name pops up is discussing something he does wrong, doesnt do enough or is completely incompetent at doing (which is often sex). Face it; women are hypergamous. 80 percent of women only want the top 20 percent of men. They want a status symbol that they can brag to their girlfriends about and the man she settles for and marries can never compete against this construct. Guys in this scenario can never win. They can have rock hard abs and an 11″ personality and still be thought of as a cheap substitute for the real thing she had while in high school or college. Can you imagine what she thinks of a dude who doesnt have those things going for him? So, when most of these women have had their fun, they seek out the same beta provier that only a few years ago was not good or exciting enough for them to consider having a relationship with. Why settle down again?
188 posted on
05/14/2017 9:16:02 PM PDT by
BizBroker
("Speaking truth to power" may only occur when liberals or Democrats are not in power.)
To: BizBroker
You’re painting with a very broad brush.
I never realized how really jaundiced toward women a lot of FR men are...
189 posted on
05/14/2017 9:22:07 PM PDT by
Jamestown1630
("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
To: BizBroker
190 posted on
05/14/2017 9:25:56 PM PDT by
deadrock
(I is someone else.)
To: BizBroker
Most men want fatherhood.
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