they’re afraid of the western divorce industry and rightfully so. Men have zero rights in family court. The mother almost always gets full custody and the dad gets stuck with a 18 to 21 year long indebted servitude.
I can understand these fears that men have now. But just as women often marry the wrong kind of man for stupid reasons, men do it too.
I’ve known men to whom a prospective mate’s physical aspect was so paramount that they allowed this to cloud their minds, instead of dwelling more on character. Even after one divorce, some of them made the same mistake again, with the same results.
Some say that men who object to the prevailing dynamic must not care enough about their children to support them. In fact, the men object to being marginalized from their children’s lives while being compelled to hand a check - with no accountability for how it is spent - to their ex-wives.