What a nasty reply, Mr/Ms Christian Perfection—exactly what you say you didn't mean to do. Yet you did. Her whole story was one of growth. Mind your own prayers.
Not perfect by any means, but when I’m doing a poor job of reflecting Christ, I don’t mind it being pointed out.
Her story put a bad light on her ex whom she admitted she regretted marrying while walking down the aisle to marry him! It wasn’t his fault she didn’t ‘love’ him. Much of the problems in the marriage likely originated from that fact, though! The fact is, like it or not, love is something we choose to do, and she didn’t CHOOSE to love him. If she’s repented and changed, great. Her story didn’t read that way, though.
I wish her nothing but the best either way, but it certainly won’t hurt her to reflect on her role in a failed marriage. That’s the only way we learn anything in this world - reflection on the part we play in the chaos.