I’m sorry but there are thousands upon thousands of women who have stated that they were forced into their abortions by others around them. Most of these women have said that they wanted to keep their babies, but found no support for an unplanned pregnancy, and they regretted their abortions nonetheless.
I agree that the babies are always victims, but there are plenty of instances where the women have been victimized also.
The fact that some women blame their actions on men does not mean that men are actually responsible for the women’s actions.
It means, instead, that the women refused to take responsibility for their own actions, denied their own moral culpability when those actions hurt another person, and so blamed someone else.