The fact that some women blame their actions on men does not mean that men are actually responsible for the women’s actions.
It means, instead, that the women refused to take responsibility for their own actions, denied their own moral culpability when those actions hurt another person, and so blamed someone else.
You said men here, and I never did.
There are women who would not have had abortions had it not been legal. They would have figured out how to survive either raising a baby on their own or maybe would have chosen adoption. I am suggesting that many women and, I’ll even say it, girls, are victimized by the sex and abortion industry. They are being told that there are no consequences to sex outside of marriage, but there are. There are lots and lots of consequences to having sex outside of marriage.