Posted on 03/06/2017 6:37:26 PM PST by BJ1
SALT LAKE CITY New research debunking the ball and chain myth of marriage for men was released Tuesday.
According to a research brief published by the Institute of Family Studies, the idea that marriage creates more unhappiness than happiness for men just isnt true.
Nicholas H. Wolfinger, a researcher at the University of Utah, and W. Bradford Wilcox, a researcher at the University of Virginia, say that more education is needed in order to ensure that people understand marriage and the truth behind it.
Contrary to the notion that marriage is detrimental to men, it turns out that the benefits are substantial by every conceivable measure, including greater financial well-being, higher quality of sexual life, and significantly better physical and mental health outcomes, wrote Wilcox and Wolfinger in Men & Marriage: Debunking the Ball and Chain Myth.
Married men, the research argued, are often less depressed than their bachelor counterparts.
Marriage is broadly beneficial to men and women alike, and many of these benefits appear to be causal, Wolfinger said. In other words, theyre a direct benefit of marriage itself, and not simply a benefit of the fact that happier, healthier, and wealthier men are more likely to get married in the first place.
According to Pew Research, men are more likely than women to never have been married, but marriage for both men and women have been in a steady decline since 1960.
I’m going to be classifying this study as fake news.
Unfortunately, the stats are about the same. Marriage is under a supernatural attack as well as a societal attack. I believe it'll just get worse as we draw nearer to the return of Christ.
As for me, Mrs. Smittie and I are about to celebrate our 23rd anniversary and courted for 12 years before that. God blessed me with her and she says that she's been blessed, though I don't think I'd be much of a blessing for anyone to live with...
It's a very good book, completely free of male bashing.
The Bible says that a woman who fears the Lord is worth more than rubies.
I can attest that that is true. I can’t believe some of the comments on this thread — it appears more suited for Democratic Underground.
Oh please.
Talk about “studied ignorance.”
Men aren’t put off on marriage qua marriage; it’s divorce and its subsequent horrors that has convinced men it’s not worth it.
I got lucky and wound up with a wonderful wife. I never thought that would happen to me. I was 33 when I met her and we’ll on my way to being a bachelor for life. I like me and really enjoyed autonomy and freedom. Took a special woman to end that
Right. Man has rebelled against God and the original intent has been perverted. It’s called sin.
There were 90 million jobless under Obama. Anyone of them thinking of starting a family will only be getting deeper into trouble.
My first wife was a keeper. She kept the house, bank accounts and everything that wasn’t nailed down.
Never been married and don’t regret a second of it. The large manority of all men I work with, I know, and in my family have all been divorced. I avoided that whole mess.
What are you even talking about?
Thank you, and congrats!
I will add a prayer for you too.
Praying for your wife’s full and swift recovery.
I am at the stage where after two marriages where I think I was a damn good partner, I don’t want to do it again. Nice to hear that your feelings changed. I love the idea of marriage.
It is kind of sad. I wonder for how long men would prefer VR / vibrator machines to women. Will it be a generation of guys? Will it be forever? I think there must be something to pheromones and people actually getting together. I would like to think that while lonely men will have the new VR bots, that they will also desire actual women still.
That is very sad. The divorce cottage industry. I divorced at the same time as a friend. My ex and I sat at a coffee shop and went over the documents together that we printed from online. We came to agreements on everything. We filed ourselves, and paid about $200.
My friend and her ex only spoke through lawyers, and each attorney said to his client, “Now we are going to have to attack them on THIS really hard, in case they do it first...” it was really just a looong fit between two attorneys. The arguments went on for a couple of years and cost each party tens of thousands of dollars.
Anyone divorcing should cheat the LAWYERS out of this scam and just agree to everything on your own.
You shoulda married me. I never asked for one cent from my spouses. The only thing I told them re child support was, it’s between you and the child forever, because I will not lie for you. If he grows up and wants to know if you paid support, I will let him know whether you did or not. I asked for nothing and my first ex paid (a small amount of his choosing, he had no custody and lived 10,000 miles away so I thought it was fair) until he was 21.
But I disagree that men don’t receive love except for from their parents. I don’t understand that feeling you have at all.
The way scientists prove causation is by increasing the number of wives and seeing if happiness increases. Good luck with that.
Sorry, I didn’t myself clear. I meant it’s too late to start in my forties to get scanned for anything. I’m reasonably healthy otherwise.
It’s important that the guys are chaste as well.
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