[A CA Guy]

Good for you, but it depends on the capacity there for that result.
Girls FAR easier to deal with than boys also.

It’s a case by case situation, your wife’s result was a great one, but you made the case about how life changing it was to the family. Thank God she has you and a great daughter.

[COBOL2Java]

I somehow get the feeling that no matter how many stories people offer to you about how these special needs children were a blessing to their families, you would respond the same way. "Good for you, but..."

What a terrible poverty of the soul that you should feel this way. I am sorry.