Screw Off, Feminists: An Open Letter To Men From A Real Woman

Everyday there’s news/outrage about the latest female tragedy, the “war on women” the #SJW feminist women, the body-shaming women. Then there’s “rape culture” and “male privilege,” and “micro-aggression.” Seems to me, if you’re a man in this world, there’s nothing you can do right. If you tell a woman to smile, you’re a sexist. If you tell a woman she’s pretty, you’re reducing her to just her looks. If you tell a woman she’s smart, you’re a sexist for being surprised that she’s smart and more than just her body. If you vocalize that you think a hot woman is hot… oh geez. Bar and lock the doors, the feminists will stab you with their steely knives.

Well as a woman (yeah, it’s Courtney Kirchoff here, not Steven Crowder), here’s something you need to know: women love men. For being men.

Okay, several feminist keyboards have been reduced to dust. Chicas are hammering their keys like the old cavemen hammered their women before dragging them into the cave. Oh that right there? Joke. I know you feminists don’t think it’s funny. Nothing to you is funny. That’s why it’s funny.

Yes, I know you’re out there, SJW feminists. You’re going to call me a bitch. You’re going to call me a sell-out. You’re going to say I’m an ignorant this, that, and plenty of other four and five letter words because I dared to write “women love men,” despite the glaring proof women do love men. Proof? The perpetuation of the species. You know, men and women getting together, doing the deed, having and not aborting their babies. I can hear you all yelling, “PATRIARCHY” and “RAPE,” out there. Yell and scream and stomp all you want. I don’t care. Background noise.

This letter is for the men who go out and do. Who build, who create, who pursue excellence, who make the world a little better by being unapologetic MEN. I’m not talking to the jerks and the creeps. They get too much attention and they do NOT represent all men. Okay? Okay.

Sorry guys, I had to address those harpies first, because they’re shrill and annoying. Where was I? Right, women love men.

Millions of women, myself included, celebrate you guys for being dudes. We may joke about how you annoy us with your one-thing-at-a-time focus, but we love that too. Life is simpler and better with you in it. We love how you say what you mean. You’re uncomplicated, straightforward, and easy to talk to. And we usually don’t have to issue disclaimers before we do speak with you…so thanks for that.

We appreciate that you want to protect women. Despite what all the feminists say, millions of us know you care for women. We know you would pound a punk into the ground if he tried messing with us. We know you love children and want to protect them. We know you want to call your daughters “princesses,” and you’re not being patriarchal when you do.

We celebrate your ambition. One of my favorite qualities in a man is his drive to be his best. He likes to take risks because he likes to push his limits and test his strength. He likes to be challenged both in his career and in his personal pursuits. Every day he is working to better himself to be a greater man than he was before.

We love your competitive drive. Women might mock you for needing to “out do” the other guys, but *this* woman at least, enjoys it. What’s life without a little competition? Thanks for the sarcastic back and forth, for trying to one-up your buddy at the gym. Rock on. We’ll watch and cheer you on. But you better win…

We love your self-deprecating humor and how you want to make us laugh. This one should be self-evident, but sadly it’s not. Even when we don’t want to be cheered up, you still try. You’re a soldier who loves his woman. Even if your woman gives you “the look” I’d like to think that deep down she’s not plotting to smother you with a pillow when you snore; she’s appreciating your good humor. Okay, maybe she wishes you didn’t snore so much. Hey, she’s human, too.

Oh SJWs, give it a rest. Are all men like the ones I’m describing? No. But a lot of men are, and not everything is about you and your micro-aggressions and fat-shaming. Stop taking up all the attention, this shouldn’t be about you.

We love how you pursue us when you like us, and we like you. Three feminist’s brains just exploded right there. Yes, men, we LIKE IT when you call us. We like it when you show us how much you care for us by actively pursuing us, even when you have us (7 more feminist brains have exploded). We like it when you open the door and treat us like queens. We like it when you make the plans, when you have direction.

So guys, when you’re constantly bitch-slapped by the loud, modern feminists for “man-spreading,” or whatever other new term they’re going to pull out of their uptight butts, know that millions of women cherish you for exactly who you are: Men. The world is a better place with men in it. Yes. I WROTE THAT. Millions of us support you. We support your careers. We support your choices. We love you for being masculine, and we celebrate you for it.

This young lady is absolutely on target. It’s a pleasure to see in print what most of us women already know in our hearts. I too love men! Unfortunately, many men have now been demoralized by feminazis for several decades. Men are marginalized and women are shamed if they don’t fall in with the program.

Look around you. Feminist guerilla warfare is everywhere. Everyone suffers. Relationships, most especially marriages, are sabotaged by the promotion of feminism. Men are understandably hostile and jaded, and very suspicious of women. What a tragedy it is! I hope that many young women read this article and understand that it’s OKAY to love and appreciate the opposite sex and to love the traits that make men real men. Contrary to what women today have been told, men are not the enemy.

I know I thank God every single day for bringing my husband into my life. It hasn't always been perfect, we haven't always been blissfully happy, but, as we have grown together, we finally have the kind of relationship that we both always dreamed of. He makes me very happy.

“Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the first was made. Our times are in his hand who saith, 'A whole I planned, youth shows but half; Trust God: See all, nor be afraid!' (Robert Browning)

Men KNOW that women love guys that basically defer and work for them. Many guys are saying “no thanks” because what difference does it make? What exactly is the “team” aspect for single men to want to legally tie themselves to a woman?

Let me take a wild guess here...you're single, aren't you?

And sometimes it’s the other way around. A woman marries a man at 18 just out of high school. He works a good job and supports the family. They have kids. The wife stays home and takes care of the children, the home, the meals, etc. Fifteen or twenty years go by and hubby starts an affair with his secretary. He tells the wife he wants a divorce so he can marry the new gal. Wife has no outside work experience and cannot find a job other than entry level, minimum wage. Child support isn’t nearly enough to pay the bills, feed and clothe the kids, pay the mortgage, the car, the gas, etc. Should the philandering husband get out of his responsibilities so easily especially since he was the one who broke the marriage?

Sorry, there are always two sides to a story. Divorce laws are supposed to be fair as well as realistic. Will some women take advantage? Sure. Just as some men do, too. Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. The family is the nucleus of society. When that breaks down, civilization is not far behind. People SHOULD be more circumspect regarding marriage. It should not be entered into lightly. We are seeing the consequences for such mistakes.

Sorry but your argument doesn’t really matter one way or the other. From what I can tell going through one divorce myself: Is that all 50 states are no-fault. The woman you speak of should get alimony or maintenance for number of years. In addition to child support. But it really doesn’t matter who cheated on who as far as I am aware.

In the prior era what happened mattered. Not today.

Imagine a scenario such at this: Guy has a wife with 3 kids. She is a stay at home mom. He makes all the money and then she has an affair with his best friend. In the “best interest” of the child she is most likely to be the custodial parent and keep the house. Her ex husband can watch his former best friend and his ex wife get married, live together in his old house while he is alienated from his kids and helps pay their bills.

You can do worst case scenarios for each sex. But family courts overwhelmingly favor the woman. And since women initiate approximately 70% of the divorces you know millions of men are reluctant or just hostile to marriage. And many women have such low standards, that these guys don’t really have a problem finding a girlfriend for love/affection. It’s messed up no doubt.

One other thing that is interesting is that this isn’t an American issue. It is an issue that affects the western world. Germany has a declining birthrate. Italy even worse. Japan has been in decline for sometime. Japan doesn’t even have the feminist dogma that affects America/Europe. The gist is the same....guys find marriage less attractive than their fathers and grandfathers.

If you go to youtube and do a search for mgtow you will find a rather large number of videos extolling the virtue of being a bachelor and the dangers of marriage.

Things are more off the rails than older folks realize imo.

Like I said, two sides to the story. Marriage should not be entered into lightly. It's a serious, life-long commitment. A big part of why there is such a deterioration of marriage and families is because of the lack of respect for sex only being within a marriage. Fidelity, sexual purity, chastity before marriage are all maybe old-fashioned ideas but they are designed by God for the good of mankind. Nowadays, it seems everyone just expects couples to have sex before they even know someone very well much less waiting until marriage. This attitude has been a big part of the destruction of marriage and society will continue to suffer because of it. It's why abortion kills over a million unborn babies every year in America. It's why 75% of Black children, 55% of Hispanics, 30% of Whites and over 40% of all children today are born to single mothers and most never know their fathers much less are provided for financially. It is why sexually transmitted diseases continue to flourish. Our society is circling the drain and it goes back to the disintegration of the family unit. Where's it gonna stop?

I heard a stat from a Christian pastor that 57% of millennial mothers are giving birth out of wedlock. I think Sweden is a possible future for us. I heard most people there don’t even bother to get married. A man and woman just move in together. If she gets pregnant she will likely stay unmarried.

I feel like an anomaly among men. When I was looking to get remarried I did care about a woman’s past. But when I asked guys (I stopped because it’s not a popular topic) if they knew how many sexual partners their wives had before, most said something like “no and I don’t care” or “no and I don’t want to know”. I think that attitude exists because they have a past with other women.

I don’t really know why the women go along with the men’s desire to have no strings sex. But the men today are happier than before per a happiness survey done in 1970 and again in 2010. The women, less happy.

Where you’re wrong is in concluding that ALL women are like those who have been in your life. You have a hatred that isn’t natural - it’s destructive both to you and all those who you may influence. It is also probably the reason why you haven’t met the kind of woman that I think deep in your heart you really want - or used to want.

I didn’t get married until I was in my late thirties. But I am so very glad I found the right man - someone I can trust, a person that is kind, brave, strong-willed, honest and honorable and someone who believes in and follows Jesus Christ. We complement each other and our love has only grown deeper the longer we have been together. I always said that if I had to wait until I was 80 years old to meet the right man, then so be it - it would be worth it. I’d rather not be married than to be married and wish I was single.

It’s never too late to change your life around. Maybe that special woman is out there waiting for YOU to get to the point where you can both appreciate each other. Are you really happy the way you are right now? Don’t you feel something is missing? Do you really want to die alone and unloved? These are questions only you can answer. I think you are missing out on a lot. I wish you well.

“You sound very feminine. “

Shaming language right off the bat. Usually you guys try to hide it better than the gals. I see they trained you well in their art of dialogue.

“We don’t think much of whiners who fret about being exploited. Suck it up butter cup.”

We? Did your wife give you permission to have an opinion? Lol!

Says some boy trying to pretend his pussy begging is some form of being a real man!

You boys never cease to amuse me in how hard you will lick the floor for the chance to touch two boobs and a vag. She tells you how good a boy you’ve been today and you feel all manly dont you?

Now go run off to your “honey do” list so your boss can judge if you are living up to her expectations.

Not sure of your gender or orientation, but I’ll hazard a guess that you don’t go for girls. And oh my the anger. It may be well justified following some serious mistreatment. I do have compassion for you. Personal experience has taught me that forgiveness is a powerful force.

And the predictable “you must be gay” reply from the trained dump, followed up by “someone must have hurt you” and ends with a “be retarded like me and keep on chasing that ass”.

Yeah, I know the script from you guys. It usually is what you write when you can’t dispute anything that is said.

Can’t blame you. You legally enslaved yourself to a girl that fluffed up your ego because she needs a good “provider”, and left yourself with current laws, vulnerable to no-fault divorce, a crooked family court system, “listen and believe” statutes, and the ability to divorce rape you the minute a better guy comes along.

I would encourage more suckers unto it too under son fake “real man” BS.

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