Posted on 10/16/2016 8:01:32 AM PDT by rickmichaels
Dear Men,
Everyday there’s news/outrage about the latest female tragedy, the “war on women” the #SJW feminist women, the body-shaming women. Then there’s “rape culture” and “male privilege,” and “micro-aggression.” Seems to me, if you’re a man in this world, there’s nothing you can do right. If you tell a woman to smile, you’re a sexist. If you tell a woman she’s pretty, you’re reducing her to just her looks. If you tell a woman she’s smart, you’re a sexist for being surprised that she’s smart and more than just her body. If you vocalize that you think a hot woman is hot… oh geez. Bar and lock the doors, the feminists will stab you with their steely knives.
Well as a woman (yeah, it’s Courtney Kirchoff here, not Steven Crowder), here’s something you need to know: women love men. For being men.
Okay, several feminist keyboards have been reduced to dust. Chicas are hammering their keys like the old cavemen hammered their women before dragging them into the cave. Oh that right there? Joke. I know you feminists don’t think it’s funny. Nothing to you is funny. That’s why it’s funny.
Yes, I know you’re out there, SJW feminists. You’re going to call me a bitch. You’re going to call me a sell-out. You’re going to say I’m an ignorant this, that, and plenty of other four and five letter words because I dared to write “women love men,” despite the glaring proof women do love men. Proof? The perpetuation of the species. You know, men and women getting together, doing the deed, having and not aborting their babies. I can hear you all yelling, “PATRIARCHY” and “RAPE,” out there. Yell and scream and stomp all you want. I don’t care. Background noise.
This letter is for the men who go out and do. Who build, who create, who pursue excellence, who make the world a little better by being unapologetic MEN. I’m not talking to the jerks and the creeps. They get too much attention and they do NOT represent all men. Okay? Okay.
Sorry guys, I had to address those harpies first, because they’re shrill and annoying. Where was I? Right, women love men.
Millions of women, myself included, celebrate you guys for being dudes. We may joke about how you annoy us with your one-thing-at-a-time focus, but we love that too. Life is simpler and better with you in it. We love how you say what you mean. You’re uncomplicated, straightforward, and easy to talk to. And we usually don’t have to issue disclaimers before we do speak with you…so thanks for that.
We appreciate that you want to protect women. Despite what all the feminists say, millions of us know you care for women. We know you would pound a punk into the ground if he tried messing with us. We know you love children and want to protect them. We know you want to call your daughters “princesses,” and you’re not being patriarchal when you do.
We celebrate your ambition. One of my favorite qualities in a man is his drive to be his best. He likes to take risks because he likes to push his limits and test his strength. He likes to be challenged both in his career and in his personal pursuits. Every day he is working to better himself to be a greater man than he was before.
We love your competitive drive. Women might mock you for needing to “out do” the other guys, but *this* woman at least, enjoys it. What’s life without a little competition? Thanks for the sarcastic back and forth, for trying to one-up your buddy at the gym. Rock on. We’ll watch and cheer you on. But you better win…
We love your self-deprecating humor and how you want to make us laugh. This one should be self-evident, but sadly it’s not. Even when we don’t want to be cheered up, you still try. You’re a soldier who loves his woman. Even if your woman gives you “the look” I’d like to think that deep down she’s not plotting to smother you with a pillow when you snore; she’s appreciating your good humor. Okay, maybe she wishes you didn’t snore so much. Hey, she’s human, too.
Oh SJWs, give it a rest. Are all men like the ones I’m describing? No. But a lot of men are, and not everything is about you and your micro-aggressions and fat-shaming. Stop taking up all the attention, this shouldn’t be about you.
Ahem.
We love how you pursue us when you like us, and we like you. Three feminist’s brains just exploded right there. Yes, men, we LIKE IT when you call us. We like it when you show us how much you care for us by actively pursuing us, even when you have us (7 more feminist brains have exploded). We like it when you open the door and treat us like queens. We like it when you make the plans, when you have direction.
So guys, when you’re constantly bitch-slapped by the loud, modern feminists for “man-spreading,” or whatever other new term they’re going to pull out of their uptight butts, know that millions of women cherish you for exactly who you are: Men. The world is a better place with men in it. Yes. I WROTE THAT. Millions of us support you. We support your careers. We support your choices. We love you for being masculine, and we celebrate you for it.
Now go chop some wood and make us a fire.
100%
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“That’s nice. Most guys that think with their little head, and females looking for their future beta husband or boyfriend usually rush in and say that.”
I reiterate, and I think it goes without saying:
“Hmmmm, I detect some sincere hostility towards women’
I feel sorry for you that you harbor such bitterness. Not a good way to go through life, regardless of the antics of the sicko feminazis. They are but a small percentage of women. Most of us like and admire men tremendously. I for one do. I’d hate to have a society of all Amazon women. I want men to be men. Men must fight back and regain their status against the wussification of our society. Not a good thing. Otherwise we will end up with Hillary as Prez. Quelle horreur!
You 're absolutely right! No surpirse at all.
Just can't see past their bitterness and hatred to see that there's a woman who's trying to encourage them.
Thanks to all the real men out there who are real men. There ARE many of us who really appreciate it and find it very attractive.
God bless you for standing strong in the onslaught o your masculinity.
God bless you for standing strong in the onslaught on your masculinity.
Not being a real man, you seem confused about the nature of real men. Perhaps that’s why you don’t comprehend real women, either!
“Not being a real man, you seem confused about the nature of real men”
Awwwww.
Save your shaming crap for your boyfriend. Maybe you can get him to work a few extra hours so you can buy an extra pair of shoes.
“I feel sorry for you that you harbor such bitterness.”
Shaming language isnt working. Women know what I say is what is taking place. They just want men to keep looking for the better liar.
“I want men to be men. Men must fight back and regain their status against the wussification of our society.”
They will. They just aren’t going to do it to be woman’s work horses and ATMs again, which is what people like the author hopes happen by tossing the feminists over the cliff in order portray herself as “safe” in order to land a dude, but keeping all of the advantages over men in the legal system and in society at large so she can still dispose of him when the mood hits her.
Women loved how men were wussified over the past 40 years, and diminished in order to promote the “empowered” female, where they all think they are prizes to be worshiped. Now that they see men walking away from them and this busted system that caters to them, now a few want to BS the ones that are left into thinking that they are “different”.
Women got a world that allows them to act like entitled babies and whores at the same time as well as vote based on their feelings and mood swings.
Now they can deal with the consequences, not try to shame the smart guys that aren’t going to play the game anymore.
“Now go chop some wood and make us a fire”.
Or per my wife “Now go chop some wood and make ME a fire”.
Already done BABE, and I got two cords in the woodshed, as soon as I drop those other 2 trees I’ll have five more for you.
I’m lucky to have a real woman for a wife. She laughs at the harpy, leftist safe space women.
“I knew this thread would bring out the Free Republic He Man Woman Haters Club”
Seems like those that think men ought to not logically asses society and not willingly submit themselves to a system where they are at the mercy of women, while thinking they are in control, and expected to be utilities for them and the state, should call themselves the Man Haters Club.
“There once was a time when men were gentlemen and women were ladies. When they sought out each other’s company. When they complemented each other, balanced each other out. I wish we could get back to those days.”
Well go ask those “lovely ladies” to remove all of those laws that they gladly agreed with or use when it is to their advantage against men.
When they tell you to shut up and stop being a “He Man Woman Hater”, then just remember we told you so.
Apparently his daddy and mommy never taught him what it means to be a Chevalier, or the the meaning of Chivalry.
Still glad my Father and Mother did teach me, just one of the finer things in life.
You are going to be a very lonely person in your old age.
Such hatred sounds like an ex-wife who had a lawyer much better than yours.
Again with the shaming language! LOL!
Stay in the haze. Eventually you will get it.
“Apparently his daddy and mommy never taught him what it means to be a Chevalier, or the the meaning of Chivalry.”
LOL! I swear this thread is like full of all the classic lines, pitching the same garbage to young guys to keep this con going.
“Chivalry” is just more ways for a guy to act subservient to females in order to get their “approval”. That magical pat on the head.
Seems like you guys live to serve women, but cannot remotely tell men what on earth is the great prize they are supposed to get from it.
“But I’m a Chevalier and I know the finer things in life!”
Ok... And those women that get those nice free meals, drinks, gifts, and praise appreciate your training.
Through the years, I have seen a number of male coworkers in different companies I have worked for get raked/raped/and robbed by feminism. Forced to pay alimony and child support like a prisoner being bled slowly and continually. Kept barely alive, just for what can be taken from them...
Several who did return to marriage did so by going overseas and finding a wife with what we would consider "old-fashioned" values. In these cases, they are the happiest I have ever seen them...
some simply say they are done, and will never commit to another marriage. The younger males who see this happening have vowed never to get married, and instead look to "friends with benefits". The family, which is the core of our existence, is slowly being killed off by the free-for-all that is a secular society. Only a few of my generation can happily say we have been married to the same woman for decades (38+ in my case), and have no plans or desires to change that.
Another friend (my age) became a widower. He tried entering the dating scene after a more than suitable mourning time. The women our age that are "available" turn out to be very high-maintenance and much more trouble than they are worth. His stories of female expectations for a relationship amazed me, and my only comment was why did he wait so long to end them. The attitude of most millennials (male & female) these days just amaze me with their selfishness and self-centered approach to relationships. A true committed relationship is not 50%/50%, it's 100% each way. I have tried to pass that concept on to my kids, and so far it seems to have taken. I wish I could say I see more of it in today's generation...but can't.
God made man and women different but distinctively compatible and complementary, and i like to so, go together like butter on toast (us men being the latter). However, sometimes the butter is frozen or the toast is burnt. And then there are some who try to be the other.
As regards the negative kind of women, much of this corresponds to culture. Compare a women raised in a one or two child NE American family and educated in public higher education with one from a hardworking child-loving Central American or Filipino family and the basic different can typically be quite profound.
Just so you'll be told, real men do not demean women with posts like yours. You proved what I posted about you without you even realizing it~!
Is it demeaning to women to say that you think most women are not marriage material?
I think that is VanDeKoik’s point. And after doing a risk vs. reward breakdown, I argue that is the case. Guys who talk about other men as not being real men are not helping. You want to shame VanDeKoik? If so why?
The problem as I see it are older men who have no real world experience with the younger women of today. Or if middle aged, the problem are the men who married a woman that is actually pleasant to be around.
However there are millions of men who one day had some devastating news come of of the blue. It often goes along the lines of “I’m not in love with you anymore...” Yeah maybe these guys are dense, but hey it came out of the blue for them.
Then these guys lose half their assets, get alienated from their children and continue to pay child support thus impoverishing them. Meanwhile the ex wife may have been unfaithful and is shacking up/remarried to somebody else. If it weren’t for Christian/religious reasons, I would actively discourage my sons from getting married. Both are in their 20s.
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