So, you at the very least made a quick mental calculation about “her financial prospects” which is good vetting. I am sure you had many more criteria that made her very special to you. I am happy for you both. Congratulations. : )
“you at the very least made a quick mental calculation about “her financial prospects””
Nope. Not at all, really. I make good money. I don’t need the wife to do so as well. It’s a bonus, but it never crossed my mind. I didn’t want a baby factory who only wanted to have babies to keep from working, but her financial situation wasn’t something I cared about. If she is a mature responsible adult there will be no worries.