You remember that you're defending your own referencing a black man as a "coon," right?
Get lost.
Everyone knows that blacks can, and almost always do, call each other by a word the use of which we as whites are proscribed from the use of. I believe that this is racist.
Leave alone the fact that most whites don't want to use the word in the first place, whether or not one does should not be the result of a racist policy, for when it is, it defeats its own purpose... which is ostensibly to eradicate racism, not promulgate it through ignorant policy.
IMHO.