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While your point is true, I really don’t think you need to go that far. All creatures are wired to reproduce, its a fundamental biological urge, and while humans are fortunate enough to have self awareness and intelligence, that make us aware of these things for what they are, it does not free us from them.

We need to pass along our genetic makeup, its a drive for most that is as fundamental as breathing and eating. As such at a primal level we are all going to try to do what we can to do so. For women its a much heavier investment, at least at the base level. She needs to make sure her and her offspring are going to be taken care of, so desires are going to be to mate with people who fit that mold... at a base level for a guy, literally any port will do, with the desire to be the most attractive partners he can find.

These drives on both sides explain a lot of behaviors, and yes, folks women cheat to... Single women can cheat for reasons like trying to trade up... or have found a guy who is a safe provider but doesn’t do it for her sexually... Of just because she really isn’t in a place where she should be settling down... etc etc... Married women cheat too, history is filled with cuckolded fathers unknowingly raising the children of other men. Traditionally though women have more to lose from cheating, so while they certainly do it, even then the approach to sex is still not on par with a male.

But men produce sperm daily, women are born with the number of eggs they will ever have. Its not surprising sex is approached differently by the genders, but what is just irresponsible today is how poorly women are raised to understand the male today... Women/girls are not being taught the wisdom of their mothers when it comes to men. Men are pretty simple and base creatures, they are not really that hard to figure out, but girls are being fed a bunch of feminist nonsense instead of simple realities known by women for eons. And that just exacerbates things.

You want to drive your boyfriend or husband to cheat? Tear him down, particularly in public.... nothing will move him away from you faster. Give him support, even if you are faking it at times, and you will be amazed generally how loyal and hard he will work for you..... yet somehow this simple reality is just lost on many women who just can’t grasp, stroking a guys ego in little ways, rather than asserting some feminist dogma is far more likely to get you what you desire and produce a happy outcome for all etc...

The liberal guys have it all backwards as well, it’s not just the girls. In the case of the guys everything is about the cause and female attractiveness is judged on the basis of how well a woman is willing to tow the line ideologically. Your stock falls to zero and you get hit with the foulest verbal imprecations the moment you indicate an intention to vote for Trump.

One thing I have noticed is that by and large the prettier girls (at least around here) are the SJWs, which probably makes the problem seem worse than it is since they are the ones that get noticed. Men have my deepest sympathies on this point. For every one of those, though, there are probably five far more reasonable souls who are just trying to get good grades and live reasonably productive lives.

Life will find a way. There is no shortage of men willing to stick it in crazy, and no shortage of women willing to put up with men who spend their lives tilting at windmills. The rest will quietly work things out and hopefully have parents to watch the kids so they can actually afford to have more than one of them. There’s a lot of golden rule in marriage I think and a whole lot of its opposite, entitlement, in society.