Posted on 07/10/2016 8:51:16 PM PDT by ErikJohnsky
I've used a couple of dating sites in my time, and went to college with an active dating and hookup scene. Somehow, it is socially acceptable for non-thin girls to think a fit, in-shape male who happens to be short is "too short" for them, or that the girl is too good for them.
Height can't be controlled at all and therefore, like race (whatever race tho, not just blacks but whites, reds, browns, yellows too), does not reflect one's values or personality traits. Weight can be easily controlled; fat girls are usually too lazy to go to the gym, and lack will-power and determination to control their diet. Given that many short men keep in good physical shape, women who are overweight should be HONOURED to get some of them, instead of being the prissy and spoiled types that feminism has promoted, with this "girl power" and that its OK for girls to be as "shallow" about men as men are about women.
Is that fat chicks can "look down" on a short guy a great example of sexual affirmative action brought about "feminism," which clearly looks for easy targets, and short men are?
Ugly is subjective; height is not. Also, plastic surgery can help with a bad face and nose; there is no practicable height surgery, aside from breaking your leg bones for one or two inches. God made short men short; he did not make fat chicks fat.
A girl who is less slim than a short guy ought to "check her arrogance."
One thing too; ever notice the multitude of "fat girls should love their body and show it off," and "plus-size model" stuff, but no equivalent for short men? While short men, THANKFULLY, haven't joined the grievance culture, its still liberal hypocrisy that short men are the only group of people affected by acts of God, their height, that liberals think its OK to trash and be prejudiced against. Its "racist" for a white girl to say she'd never date a black, but perfectly fine, and almost encouraged, for girls to never date a shorter guy, even tho height, like race, is determined by the Almighty.
ROTFLMAO
Men get angry/violent/vengeful with a partner who isn’t attracted to them, and it’s not a thing a person can force themselves to feel. So what you suggest could result in a bad time had by all. Then there’s prison... and the hulking cellmate missing a bunch of teeth who is grinning at you and making kissy noises...
Besides, humankind has been evolving this mechanism for tens of thousands of years, for example, did you know that finding a person’s body odor objectionable has been shown to coincide with increased gestational problems if you hold your nose and proceed anyway?
So get some counseling, and then go out there and find yourself a nice woman who likes short guys!
This is a news junky site, not a personal help site. My guess is that you are not going to enjoy the comments.
My husband always says he must be tall enough because his feet reach the ground.
I find it highly distressing that multi-millionaire women are not attracted to me.
Short People got no reason
Short People got no reason
Short People got no reason
To live
They got little hands
Little eyes
They walk around
Tellin’ great big lies
They got little noses
And tiny little teeth
They wear platform shoes
On their nasty little feet
Well, I don’t want no Short People
Don’t want no Short People
Don’t want no Short People
`Round here
I know that not all of the posts are or will be supportive. This thread is more to call out feminist liberal hypocrisy.
And to your post, how many of those girls who mind a guy below a certain height, especially the girls who aren’t modeling material, actually are repulsed by a guy below a threshold, vs. prodded by peer pressure to “be cool” and not be laughed at by her friends, being “unfeminist” by having “low standards,” or “settling?”
Your post wasn’t about just getting along in a classroom with someone, doing group projects and whatnot. It was about dating and the hookup culture. The hookup culture itself is known for being dehumanizing and harsh, plus you spoke contemptuously of women you apparently wanted to bump wobblies with which is not at all a good sign.
Cut and run my friend, there are greener pastures elsewhere, but you are wrong wrong WRONG trying to frame this as being denied some sort of entitlement.
Second Law of Justice: No one thinks the First Law should apply to them.
I know plenty of short men (in the 5’5” to 5’7” range) who ended up with extremely attractive women. It’s all about who hits it off and who doesn’t.
I am a short guy so I understand where you are coming from. The dating pool for short guys (just as it is for really tall women) is much shallower than it is for most people.
I try to see the bright side of the picture. The women I have dated and have had relationships with have more substance than most women. A lot of my friends have gotten involved with some crazy, shallow women that, quite frankly, wouldn’t have given me the time of day. Had I been taller, I am pretty sure I would have been involved with my share of crazies like my friends, however I am pretty comfortable with how my life turned out.
I’m sure your impotent manlet rage is super-sexy for the ladies.
I dated a tall woman once. She was 6’1” (3 inches taller than me) and was the sweetest, most girlie-girl you had ever met.
Fat chicks are not attractive. Men are visual creatures.
That being said... lightswitch....
“He is really tall standing on his wallet.”
Everybody has the right to decide who is good enough for them and who is not.
The odds of anybody getting well beyond their attractive capacity is always between slim and none.
Lots of guys like fat or “Rubenesque” chicks. However, the majority of men like a woman whose measurements are closer to 36-24-36. That’s just the way it is and it has nothing to do with Barbie or Playboy.
“Short people are just the same as you and I, fool said I” - Randy Newman.
Hmm. I’m under five feet tall so no, when I was single I was not interested in short men. I know a young man who is depressed and really frustrated because he keeps striking out with women. In part it’s because he’s five foot three and keeps chasing the Homecoming Queens.
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