Yes, women have a tremendous economic incentive to seek divorce rather than reconciliation. Plus, if young children are involved they know that they are in the driver’s seat for getting full custody or primary physical custody and thus getting tax-free child support.
Don’t wait too long to get back out in the free-market economy of dating. Travel to places like Florida, Arkansas, Latvia, and elsewhere if the market conditions are not favorable in your area.
I've been told that men such as I (in their early to mid 50's, financially stable, have a good job, no debt, etc..) are a "highly desirable commodity" amongst women between the ages of 45-55.
I'm about to find out whether or not that's true.