[metmom]

A woman cannot be in love with a man she does not admire and respect. If it's obvious she does not respect you, then she has reasons other than love for being with you. Run.

I think you're on to something there.

Thinking back over past relationships, it's the men I respect the most that I was most attracted to.

Looks weren't the deciding factor by any means.

[PapaBear3625]

Thinking back over past relationships, it's the men I respect the most that I was most attracted to.

Of the men you were in a relationship with, if the crap has well-and-truly hit the fan, which one would you most want to be around? And where does he stand on the attraction scale relative to the rest?

There's a design reason for women to feel that way.