Of the men you were in a relationship with, if the crap has well-and-truly hit the fan, which one would you most want to be around? And where does he stand on the attraction scale relative to the rest?
There's a design reason for women to feel that way.
The one who ended up going into the Marines. He was the one I was most attracted to and that was before he joined.
Basically, it’s the one who’s not hesitant to do what is needed in any situation, who comes across as strong and is willing to stand up and defend me.
Someone decisive and goes for what he believes in.
Personal integrity counts for a lot and I hate pretense.
I don’t need to agree with him on everything. He can have his own friends and guy time. Sports are a non-issue for me.
And this may sound weird, but I don’t want someone who *needs* me. I don’t want to be needed. Women understand what that means right away. Some guys need it explained. Let me know if you get it.