Yes. . .and what I observe while teaching college (and hear from the young men) is this: women are asking guys out more. . .but it is more an invitation for sex, a hook-up, really. The ‘serious’ guy is not pursued as aggressively.
Translation: the girls will pursue the "hot" guys, the "Alpha" males, during their 20's and ignore the "boring" guys who might actually have an interest in marrying then.
Then, in their 30's, when they see "The Wall" looming in front of them, when the "Alphas" have lost interest in favor of the latest batch of 20-somethings, THEN they expect the boring guys to "man up", step up and give them commitment, a house, etc. Then they can later rape the guy in divorce court to pursue their "eat, pray, love" fantasies.
That's what I'm hearing, too.
The ‘serious’ guy is not pursued as aggressively.
I hope that's true because I have a son in college, and he's probably more the serious type.