I wouldn’t. Any prospective spouse who would would no longer be a prospective spouse.
^This^
Himself would not be here, let alone be ‘hubby’ if my pack had not roundly okayed him the night I met him, back in 1993.
The Ibizans checked him out first and when they deemed him worthy, I turned 2 Dobes and Pit loose on him.
To my surprise, they did not eat him.
He’s been here ever since.