My friend’s child, aged 2, blinded his Grandma in one eye. He was just swinging a toy. No one in the family is ever going to tell the tyke. Just a freak occurrence, and after four surgeries they cannot repair her vision. She holds her precious grandchild no ill will.
That’s good that your friend’s child doesn’t remember.
Hopefully this child won’t remember what happened, either. Unfortunately, the woman’s other children were there, too, though.
Whatever happens, all of this woman’s children are going to need lots of prayer. Such a shame.