Saying that “any woman who died from an illegal abortion deserve to die.” is not exactly showing the love of Christ.
We all need Christ’s Mercy. Sometimes we as Christians need to step back and see how we look to non Christians.
My reply would have been “It’s a shame there were no Crisis Pregnancy Centers for her”. Or better yet, “It’s a shame no one in her Church could have helped her”. I would have ended it with “May God have mercy on her soul”.
I do have compassion for all people who get the Darwin Award.
But PT Barnum was correct and people make bizarre choices.
God gave us free will, but holds us accountable for our choices.