Living like a slob has nothing to do with living alone. Plenty of singles keep their homes immaculate and plenty of homes with multiple residents are pig stys.
Amen to that. Between wives, I lived alone for 34 years. Being an anal neat freak my place was always immaculate. Been married now for three years and have to keep the anal side somewhat subdued. She’s not messy but not a neat nut like me.
I can do both...not uncommon I have a ‘clothes explosion’ in my bedroom when deciding what to wear to work...but I am organized which is key I think. So I just take care of it when I get home.
My place is comfortably lived in. I’d have no problem getting unexpected guest at any time....